Where to Find Love
That’s the proverbial question. As a dating coach for women who are dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I often explain that you can literally find love anywhere and every where. But it requires an attitude of love. Being loving is the first step to attracting the love you want.
However, rather than focusing on “where” to find love, I’m going to share some new research on love that is truly remarkable. And there’s a lot of it – too much for me to mention in one post. But I’ll share a couple of real gems that I find reassuring and sort of mind-blowing too.
First of all – have you heard of HeartMath? I was first introduced to HeartMath by Dr. Deborah Rozman, one of the speakers from the Soulmate Summit. In her program, Deborah discussed how to activate your heart’s intelligence to attract a mate. I found her information fascinating as she explained about the Institute of HeartMath (IHM) and what they do. This organization has been doing research on how to destress and helping people establish what they call “heart-based living”.
This group has found a real medical connection between your heart patterns, emotions and stress levels. Isn’t that amazing? I think so! Now you have even more reasons to want to find heart connections and de-stress – it will help you live longer.
Innovators in this connection, the Institute for HeartMath has created programs to help children perform better on tests and build better social skills. With a wide range of programs and techniques created to de-stress and live better, IHM helps people in 50 countries to build the emotional resilience needed for today’s world. And we sure need it!
How to Find Love
I find this fascinating and feel strongly that the information I dig up will help my dating coaching clients discover how to find love more quickly and choose better partners as well. Right now, I’m in the process of immersing myself in a learning campaign about love. Join me as I start to report on my journey to learn everything I can. I will be sharing knowledge, tips and techniques as I expand my dating coaching tool box to help women over 40 find the love they want and deserve – even faster!
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