When Will I Meet My Soulmate, The Man I’ve Been Waiting For?

Wondering, “When will I meet my soulmate?” If you’ve been waiting forever to meet that special man to share your life with, check out these suggestions to attract him.

What’s A Soulmate?

when will I meet my soulmate -couple from backYour soulmate is someone you feel a strong connection with. You get each other and seem to go together like no other. Your soulmate isn’t always romantic – it can also be a strong friendship.

The good news is you can have more than one soulmate!

This means there is no one perfect person because you are meant to have more than one such connection in your life. So right now, you can finally stop worrying about any shortage of partners.

Thankfully, you are not limited to one soulmate. You might have a few soulmates during your lifetime.


Your Soulmate Does NOT Complete You

I’m not a fan of the idea that your soulmate completes you. You need to be complete and whole all on your own. Otherwise you are looking at a co-dependent relationship where you are too enmeshed in each other’s lives.

Support is one thing, but doing everything for the other person isn’t possible or healthy.

Your soulmate will help you learn life lessons, support your personal and spiritual growth and encourage you when you need it most. You can grow together, but also as individuals.

You feel stronger together but this is not based on neediness.

Finding Your Soulmate


If you truly want a soulmate connection, then you have to be sure your mindset is aligned with love. You know everything is lined up properly when you make finding love a priority.

For example, you:

  • Spend time getting clear about what you want in a partner
  • Write and use affirmations
  • Visualize being in love with your soulmate
  • Create a vision board, also called a treasure map, to focus on
  • Know in your heart that love is your destiny
  • Reach out to men online and the apps
  • Meet at least one new man every week
  • Make time for dating
  • Ask friends to fix you up and more.

In other words, you put your time into connecting with your soulmate. When you are aligned with love, your inner world and outer worlds match, so you can make the most of your efforts to find your soulmate.

When Will I Meet My Soulmate?

Okay, determining the timing can be a little tough. Who can say for sure when you will meet that special guy? But here’s the thing, instead of worrying about the “when”, focus your energy on being READY!

Live your best life now and enjoy what you have. Acknowledge what is going well and feel plenty of gratitude about what is good today. Smile often and share your joy with others. Be loving to attract the kind of soulmate love you want.

Keep Your Love Vibration High

when will I meet my soulmate --sunset silohuetteIf you are always worry about, “When will I meet my soulmate?” you aren’t focused on the positive. This is coming from a place of lack and disbelief. You never want to pump out confusing signals into the Universe!

The best thing you can do is to remain steadfast in your belief that love is your destiny and know the right man is looking for you too. He’s on his way to find you!

Take steps to make it easy for him to cross your path. Stay upbeat, be active, try new things, and meet plenty of new people, especially MEN. Catch yourself if you naturally stray off into feeling down that you haven’t found him yet and turn that energy around!

Keeping your love vibration elevated is the fastest path to finding your soulmate.

Stay Positive About Your Soulmate

If you catch yourself fretting that you may never find him and concerned about, “When will I meet my soulmate?”learn how to talk to yourself out of this place. Tell yourself your soulmate is right around the corner. He is on his way and sure to find you any minute.

Most of all, you constantly remind yourself and truly believe that love is your destiny. Every time you turn your attention and awareness onto this idea, you breathe deeply and relax. You know the truth of this statement and it fills you with the same kind of peace that being with your soulmate offers.

10 Signs He’s Your Soulmate


How do you know when you’ve met your soulmate? You might not know right away. t can take some time for things to gel even for soulmates! Get to know the man you’re dating and watch for consistency of his interest first and foremost.

As time progresses and you get to know each other better, here are 10 surefire signs to watch for that you’ve found your soulmate!

  1. You get each other and deeply understand your internal workings
  2. You love each other despite your differences
  3. You feel completely comfortable around him
  4. You appreciate what is good and what does work about him
  5. You are proud to be with him
  6. You show each other great respect
  7. You feel an amazing sense of peace when together
  8. You can totally trust him and know he has your back
  9. You can be vulnerable around him and have a tough conversation without fear
  10. You both can admit when you’re wrong and apologize

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Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony, MSN.com, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

2 thoughts on “When Will I Meet My Soulmate, The Man I’ve Been Waiting For?”

  1. Hi Ronnie:
    Great blog, nice to see such wise advice. I have a problem. I met a man online. He’s Russian, and speaks English well. We were just online friends for 4 months, until he told me he was dying. (Cue the red flags, but he really is). I realized I could not have him die without seeing him. 6 days later, I’m in Russia on an emergency visa. I met his doctors, ran errands, and helped out wherever I could. We were intimate. Regardless, he made me feel more loved than I ever have in my life. He has lost use of his legs. 7 days later, I flew home. He is complex, with anger issues (PTSD from military service) and a serious drinking problem that is killing him. He texts me daily. I love him. But for so many reasons, he is bad for me. I am really good for him, though. He has regained interest in living.

    When home, I met a man, through work, who struck up a conversation.. he’s very nice, and I’m very attracted. and He’s asked me out on a date. He lives locally. I’m seriously tempted to go out with him. I haven’t promised anything exclusive to anyone, but it feels like I would be betraying both of them. Help me decide what to do..

    • Hi Confused, You don’t know what to do? Yes you do! If you like him you go! You cannot be tied to some man dying on the other side of the world. There’s no reason for guilt or hesitation whatsoever. Texting is not a true relationship. Can you imagine if you had to see him all the time with that anger problem? The distance is the only thing making your connection possible. You need to go for what is REAL LIFE, not the fantasy of love with your Russian man that will never be more. Go for it with the local guy – its only a date.

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