Online Dating Isn’t Always the Problem: Could It Be You?

Stop blaming online dating as the reason for your single status. I just read a scathing post from Charles Orlando about online dating and its “web of lies” on YourTango. There’s no question that the author’s points had truth to them, and were backed up with facts and statistics. However, as a dating coach for … Read more

Understand Men: Why Do Men Play Games?

If you wonder why men play games, this post will help you understand men, what’s going on and what you can do about it. Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach for Women, I am divorced and recently started online dating. I’ve met a few guys that seem to be pretty great. There is one in particular … Read more

Find Love: I Need to Know – Why Doesn’t He Want Me?

Single and need to know why he didn’t ask you out again? This is such a common dating problem single women face every day. This letter from a reader really expresses the pain women go through trying to figure out what happened. Let me share a simpler solution. Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach for Women, … Read more

Dating After Divorce: I Had One Great Date – Now What?

Dating After Divorce Can Be So Confusing Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach for Women I am 51 years old I haven’t dated in many years. Recently, I met a guy online – David.  We had our first date four weeks ago and since then we talk everyday and text. But I haven’t seen him … Read more

Online Dates: Why Do The Wrong Men Contact Me Online?

  Disappointing Online Dates – How to See the Positive Side of the Wrong Men Contacting You As a dating coach for women, I understand how aggravating online dating can be. Many of my clients complain how men don’t read (by the way, neither do some women) because if they did, the wrong men would … Read more

Understand Men: He Wants to Put All His Eggs in One Basket with Me

Need help to better understand men? Many single women do! This reader wrote in about a confusing situation with a new guy she met online. Read on to see how I helped her. Hey Ronnie – The Dating Coach for women 40+ Please help me understand men!  I started talking to a guy, who made … Read more

Date Online: Busting 3 Myths about Online Dating

Tips to Help You Date Online As a dating coach for women in midlife,  I wish I had a dollar for every gal who told me “Online dating is not for me!” I’d be rich! For me, this closed off attitude about the Internet is such a shame. Why do I say that? Because to … Read more

Online Dating: Top 5 Sites for 2013

Online Dating-Do You Know the Top Ranking Sites? So many of my dating coaching clients start out asking what the best online dating sites are. My dating advice is always the same: Match.com. Now I don’t get a referral fee for saying this. To me, Match is the best site because they are the biggest … Read more

Find Love: To Attract Love, Embody Love and Love Yourself More

More about online dating – this post is a continuation from yesterday. If you struggle with how to stay positive while dating, read on.   “Hi Ronnie – The Dating Coach for Women Thank you for the helpful ways to handle online dating disappointment and smart conversation tips you posted yesterday. I feel lucky because … Read more

Online Dating: What’s the Best Advice to Keep a Man’s Interest?

Here’s a question about online dating sent from one of my clients who is out there meeting men and seeking Mr. Right. Her struggles are echoed by countless women using online dating as one way to meet more men. “Hi Ronnie – The Dating Coach for Women Boy, online dating is a fickle thing! A … Read more

Find Love: To Text or Not to Text?

This question on how to find love is from one of my divorced clients who wants to know the signs and timing for a guy who is not interested. Plus, she wants to know if she can text him to keep the ball rolling. “Hi Ronnie. Hope you don’t mind this question. I had a … Read more

Find Love Again: Flirt Up a Storm During Hurricane Sandy

Hurricane Sandy Has Arrived So It’s Time to Flirt Up a Storm! If you live on the East Coast – then you know its absolutely crazy out there! The wind is blowing, the tides are abnormally high and everything is closed. Well, not EVERYTHING. The Internet is still open and running while we still have … Read more

Date Online: Meeting Men Online Has Been a Disaster for Me

Have you tried to date online and felt completely disgusted with the process? You are not alone! So many women tell me how their experiences are just horrid. Let me share a few situations women have told me about. 1. The wrong men email – Beth was very specific about who she was looking to … Read more

Online Dating Advice: He Offered to Cook Dinner. Should I Go?

Avoid the temptation of sex by keeping your dates in the public eye. My dating coaching client, Kendra, met Mike through an online dating site. The first date went great! Kendra found Mike attractive, a good conversationalist, and friendly.  She felt comfortable with him and thought Mike had serious potential. Mike sent Kendra an email … Read more

Online Dating: 7 Ways Your Profile Sabotages Your Success

Online Dating: Does your profile scare men away? I know dating is not easy. And online dating causes a lot of stress for many women dating over 40 (or any age). You might think finding love online should be a natural process that’s easy and quick. It should be obvious how it works Unfortunately, none … Read more

Turnoffs for Guys in 3 Easy Steps – Part 3 – Convenient

This is Part 3 of a 3-part series on dating blunders that often push or scare men away. Here’s the last Turnoff for guys post in this series about Online Dating Mistakes. Turnoff #3 You’ve gotten past email and the telephone hurdles. Now you are ready to meet him! You agreed to meet at a … Read more

How to Turnoff a Guy in 3 Easy Steps – Part 2 – Honesty

This is Part 2 of a 3-part series on seemingly innocent dating errors that are actually huge mistakes that often push or scare men away. Its time to start thinking about your actions from more than what’s convenient for you. As your dating coach I am here to say it’s time to get STRATEGIC about … Read more

Online Dating: How to Turnoff a Guy in 3 Easy Steps – Part 1

  Important Online Dating Tips – So You Don’t Push Him Away by Mistake One of my male dating coaching clients (yes I do coach men and learn so much from them that I share with YOU!) shared this story with me. He really made me think about the things women do without even realizing … Read more

Top 10 Reasons Why Online Dating Is Your Next Step to Find Love

Too Timid to Try Online Dating? Here Are 10 Big Reasons to Get Over it Now! 1. Over 40 million people are online in the US. That’s a boat load of single people! And I can’t help but know that somewhere in all those millions, there’s a good match for you. Really, just let the … Read more