Are You Making These 3 Online Dating Mistakes?

  Three online dating mistakes most women make When dating coaching clients come to me, they often start by complaining about online dating. Until we peel back the layers to see what they are doing wrong, they feel frustrated with the men who email them. This can happen for a number of reasons: They don’t … Read more

Date Online: Do I Have to Wait for Men to Contact Me?

If you want to date online, this post offers some great tips on how to reach out to men and make the first contact. Last night I was delivering my latest dating seminar Online Dating Kick Start and a great question came up.  One participant wanted to know if she needs to wait for men … Read more

Find Love: Why Didn’t He Want Exclusivity with Me?

  To Find Love, Go For Exclusivity in a Relationship This letter was from a woman who had a hard time understanding why a man she met online, who seemed to appreciate who she was would let her go? The question really comes down to exclusivity. She handled this well, but I gave her a … Read more

Find Love: Date Around on HuffPoLive!

Find love through volume dating So excited to share I was on HuffPoLive – video chat segment last Thursday discussing dating around and dating more than one man at a time. I’m a big believer in this. The reason? You just don’t know who will stick around and who will disappear! Please keep in mind … Read more

Online Dating: Top 5 Sites for 2013

Online Dating-Do You Know the Top Ranking Sites? So many of my dating coaching clients start out asking what the best online dating sites are. My dating advice is always the same: Now I don’t get a referral fee for saying this. To me, Match is the best site because they are the biggest … Read more

He Texts Me Everyday, But Doesn’t Ask Me Out

Are you having trouble understanding men and why he texts you every day? You are not alone wondering why “He texts me everyday so why doesn’t he ask me out?” This is such a constant problem for single women of any age.  I just got this email from a woman who is confused by the … Read more

Cast a Wider Net When Dating After Divorce

Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, I am a woman recently divorced who is 31 years old. I’m a successful  graphic designer who has only ever dated men who I have this in common with (a very good thing about my past relationships). All the advice I seem to be seeing online about dating after divorce is pushing … Read more

New Scientific Study Exposes Online Dating Site Matching as Bogus!

Matching by Online Dating Sites Isn’t Scientific! I am so excited to share this with you! If you know me or have read my blog, you know how I feel about online dating sites that match you. It’s total hogwash And now I have science behind me! As reported by CBS News, new research has … Read more

Dating Over 40: What about Men Who are Spontaneous?

Heather, an over 40 dating coaching client of mine, asked me about a man she had been emailing online. They had several fun exchanges over three days. He told her how his work is bi-coastal and he spends a lot of time in California. Dave wasn’t sure when he’d have time to get together. Then yesterday at about … Read more

Dating Over 40: How can I keep myself safe when I’m trying online dating?

  Dear Ronnie, I’m putting up a profile on and want to know if you have any tips about being safe when using internet dating sites? Can you give me some suggestions please? Katie in Scarsdale, NY Dear Katie, There are a number of things you can do to help guard your safety with … Read more

Dating Over 40: 5 Big Reasons Why You Must Post a Photo on

If you are going to write up a profile and answer all the questions on or any other dating site, for goodness sake, please post a photo. I am constantly amazed at women who tell me they don’t want to put up a picture. Why not? Well there are plenty of reasons. For example … Read more