Find Love Again: Flirt Up a Storm During Hurricane Sandy

Hurricane Sandy Has Arrived So It’s Time to Flirt Up a Storm! If you live on the East Coast – then you know its absolutely crazy out there! The wind is blowing, the tides are abnormally high and everything is closed. Well, not EVERYTHING. The Internet is still open and running while we still have … Read more

New Scientific Study Exposes Online Dating Site Matching as Bogus!

Matching by Online Dating Sites Isn’t Scientific! I am so excited to share this with you! If you know me or have read my blog, you know how I feel about online dating sites that match you. It’s total hogwash And now I have science behind me! As reported by CBS News, new research has … Read more

Online Dating: Zero Date Means Your First Date Is Not A Real Date

What is a Zero Date? It’s a first date when you meet via online dating or the apps. Here’s why it doesn’t count as a real first date. Get Real about a First Date One thing I share with my love coaching clients that makes a big difference for setting expectations is calling your coffee … Read more

Online Dating: How Do I Weed Out the Unsavory Types?

Dear Dating Coach, “Every time I meet someone on a dating website, they turn out to be completely opposite of what I read about them. There are also a lot of creepy people on them also. How do I weed them out?” Missing the Mark is Missouri Dear Missing, Thanks for your question. Sorry to … Read more

Dating Over 40: Why Online Dating is NOT the Same as Catalog Shopping

Last night I gave a talk at Dr. Ellen Mahony’s office in Westport, CT. Not one of my traditional venues, but certainly a great place to meet women over 40! Dr. Ellen is just a doll, so if you are interested in getting a little somethin’ somethin’ done, check her out. Anyway, I was talking … Read more

Dating Over 40: Can I Take My Profile Down? I’ve Had 3 Dates with Mr. Wonderful!

Yesterday, Stacy asked me this question. The short answer is – I don’t advise it. Don’t take your profile down before you know how things are going to unfold. There are cases where you hit it off with someone and you know – this is it. Or at least it seems that way. Ever felt … Read more

Dating Over 40: Is it Safe to Use Your email Address with Your Match.com Acquaintances?

I learned something new today from a tech friend about email addresses. A client asked me if using her regular email is safe on match vs going through the match email service. I wasn’t sure so I asked my friend. I figured if your email address doesn’t have your real full name in it, and you … Read more