Dating Over 40: Attraction and Human Nature – Too Easy vs. Unavailable

Have you ever been highly attracted to someone who barely noticed you? Or maybe they were more on the friend level, even though you wanted more. The unattainable man is highly attractive. The Secret to Mr. Twinkle Eye That is part of the secret of George Clooney’s charm – his  elusiveness. The “Ungettable Man”  is aloof, … Read more

Dating Over 40: The Problem with Mr. Twinkle Eye

Recently, one of my over 40 dating coaching clients was explaining the type of guy she is looking for. This woman who is 51, successful, bright, energetic and friendly, wants a man with some passion and that certain something she can only describe as “a twinkle in his eye.” As a dating coach , I hear … Read more