Over 40 Dating: Flirting Lessons with Madeleine Albright!

Last night I watched Real Time with Bill Maher.  One of his special guests was Madeleine Albright,past Secretary of State during the Clinton Administration.  Maher asked Madeleine a variety of questions. Then he veered off into an area that surprised me. Bill suggested that it’s easier for women to be Secretary of State because women … Read more

Dating Over 40: Your Opening Line Doesn’t Have to Be Rocket Science to Start a Conversation

  Did you ever see a man in the grocery line who you wanted to talk to? Maybe he was in the line at the bank or even at a friend’s party. You struggle to come up with something to say. It feels like you can hear the clock ticking while you pray that your … Read more

Dating Over 40: 46 Men and Counting

Well this summer has been a hot one for some of my clients who took me up on the challenge to meet and talk to 50 men in just 100 days. At the start of the challenge, there was a lot of disbelief and grumbling. Some women insisted that it just couldn’t be done. How … Read more

Is it a Bad Sign When You Flirt with a Man in Seminary Training?

True story. One of my clients, Katie, sent me an email about meeting a great guy – who turns out to be studying to be a priest! OK, When I read the email I laughed out loud.. But it does make you pause and think about things doesn’t it? She was worried this was a sign that … Read more

Dating Over 40: Can You Mimic the Sensuality of Cat Woman?

Today on my morning walk, I noticed two young girls in costumes riding scooters. The older girl had on a super hero costume iI didn’t recognize. The other had on a black velvet leotard with black tights, two pointy ears on a headband and a plush black tail pinned to her bottom. The tail wagged … Read more

Dating Over 40: A Flirty, Fun Summer – What’s That?

One of my newest clients asked me what a flirty fun summer is supposed to be like.  That’s what I’ve been talking about a lot lately. The idea involves enjoying yourself while flirting with men. But let’s take a step back further to really examine what flirty fun might mean. According to dictionary.com, the word … Read more

Dating Over 40: Flirting – Watch this How-To Video and Learn

  Here’s something new for you – Love U, an educational video series on… DATING! How fun! I  just watched this quick video on flirting. They have the concepts down, but the demonstration seems a bit tongue and cheek. Not all that serious, really. But the lessons themselves are sound. Things like flipping your hair, … Read more

Flirt School – Unleash Your Feminine Allure to Attract More Men

What makes a woman irresistible?  Some women just have the knack. But don’t despair. Now you too can effectively wield your feminine charms. You’ve got ’em, even if they’ve been buried deep within your heart and soul for years.   Here’s your chance to discover simple flirting techniques and sure-fire ways to rekindle your feminine … Read more

Dating Over 40: Are you ready to have the time of your life or waiting to get motivated?

My client Sharon called in for her monthly coaching appointment last night. We talked about how things were going on her dating journey. What had she done to find the love she wants? Surprisingly, Sharon had done very little. She did have a number of excellent excuses. For example: work was really busy, she’s remodeling … Read more

Dating Over 40: The April “Get Out There” Challenge

Ive got a challenge for you. And it’s big. Not the Pepsi challenge. Oh no. It’s a big one and if you take it on, you will dramatically improve your chance for spring and summer romance 10 fold. No kidding. No April Fool’s joke. Outside it’s warming up. So that hibernation excuse has limited continued … Read more

Dating After Divorce: How Come He Flirts via Email, But Doesn’t Ask Me Out?

Have you encountered one of these guys? The banter and flirting back and forth via the Internet is fantastic. He has such a great sense of humor and seems really fun and interested in you. After all, why would he waste so much time flirting with you if he didn’t like you? And if he … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Flirting Can Get You Arrested in NYC and Arkansas

Today on MSN.com, there is an article with some fun flirting tips – including that it’s illegal in New York City and Arkansas – antiquated laws that are still on the books.  To ensure you don’t get fined, or worse, you may want to read this . I wouldn’t worry to much though – both … Read more