Dating After 40: Do You Respect Men as Equals or Feel Superior?

Are you dating after 40 and struggling with managing your masculine/feminine energy? Back in 2009, I wrote a post about emasculating the male ego with a personal story about my husband. The short version is that we went to Home Depot to buy a water filter. Being a chick-in-charge, I did my usual – walked … Read more

Real Housewives: Kenya’s Pitch For Marriage Pushes Walter Away

Do you watch the Real Housewives of Atlanta on Bravo TV? This season has been something else! From this dating coach’s perspective, watching Real Housewife Kenya angle for a marriage a proposal from her boyfriend Walter has been chilling to say the least. Here’s the low down on the Real Housewives of Atlanta romantic mishap. … Read more

What Attracts a Man to a Woman? Feminine Charm!

Have you ever read The Dating Goddess’s blog? She writes fabulous posts about being over 40 and single. In a recent post, she had a conversation with a guy friend who’d like to date her,. He explained the attraction she has, “You have this tough, businesslike, ‘don’t mess with me’ exterior. But inside, you’re soft … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Why Didn’t He Ask Me for a Second Date? Possible Self-Sabotage

Wednesday I wrote a post answering questions from my client about why she and her friends don’t get second dates from men who seem interested. Most of the time, when working with women dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I tell them that the reason is usually not personal. Just move on and don’t … Read more