Dating over 50 is not easy. If you don’t have love, you may feel something is missing. Here’s why. Having arrived at 50 (and maybe sailing past that time marker) you have gathered a good amount of wisdom. You are most likely aware of what you need to be happy in life and what … Read more
Are you dating over 50? You may struggle to find time to date. Molly’s question shows that it take two people who have time to connect. Find out why this man is NOT the right guy for her. “Hi Ronnie the Dating Coach for Women Over 40, I met this guy at a party who … Read more
Dating over 50 and feeling stressed out or disappointed? Apply the Boston Marathon’s positive approach to your love life! Are you having a hard time dating to find love? I understand. As a dating coach for women over 40, I work with women every day who express their frustration, anger, fear and sadness. It’s not … Read more
Hoping to find love after 50? These ideas will help! Recently NPR did a piece on how online dating sites were helping older singles. Ina Jaffee interviewed Sam Yagan, the CEO of Match Group (Match.com, OurTime.com, OkCupid.com, BlackPeopleMeet.com). The company owns 30% of the $2 billion dollar online dating industry and he points out … Read more
Over 50 and looking for love? The good news is you have lots of company! Did you know that interest in dating after 50 has never been so hot? There’s a good reason for this. According to the Chicago Tribune, in 1990, only 1 in 10 divorces were couples over 50, but today the … Read more
Are you dating after 50 and struggling to find the right men to date? In this shopping vs. dating tell-all post, I’m going to share my recent experience at T.J.Maxx and help you notice and consider the men who are available around you. Sounds crazy? Not really, as a dating coach for women, I see … Read more
Are you dating after 50 and confused about how it all works? According to a study which appeared in the European Journal of Personality last December, playing hard to get works! Four different experiments were done which revealed if playing hard to get works and when it works best. Turns out women fare better when … Read more
Need advice for dating after 50? Have you heard how 40 is the new 30? That means 50 is the new 40 and by the way, 60 is the new 50! But maybe you don’t feel so young and attractive any more. Have no fear – here are some easy ways to recapture that youthful … Read more
Dating at 50: Wedding Bells for One of My Dating Coaching Clients I just got this exciting email from one of my clients. I haven’t heard from Brenda in a while and this must be the reason! She’s getting married in just three weeks. You can read her note to me yourself “Hi Ronnie: … Read more
Ready to Start Dating at 50+ But Have Been Out of Circulation for a While? When you haven’t been in the dating pool for some time, maybe years even, the idea of getting back out there can feel overwhelming. You might be divorced, widowed, or single and have simply given up. So many questions plaque … Read more
If you are wondering why, “He flirts with me but doesn’t ask me out?” read on to finally learn what that is really about. Has this happened to you? There’s a guy at work, church, or in your social circle. When you see him, he seems to light up. He seems very interested in what’s … Read more
Find Love Faster with a Mind that’s a “Clean Slate” Do you know anything about Zen meditation? I studied Zen for a while in the early 90’s. They talk about “adopting beginner’s mind” which means to be open, to keep a clean slate, to look at everything with new eyes. That’s why in my book … Read more
What a day! Valentine’s Day brings out so many emotions! Radio and TV talk show hosts bash the day as nothing more than another Hallmark Holiday. But that is not true. Valentine’s Day is not just consumerism at its best. This day is anchored in ancient history. Way back in ancient Rome, girls and boys … Read more
A few years ago I was teaching a continuing education class at a local school on finding Mr. Right. Much to my surprise, a man registered. No, he wasn’t gay looking for Mr. Right himself. Fred was hoping to learn how to find Ms. Right after his dear wife of 25 years had passed away. … Read more
Who are you looking to meet? Have you spent time defining the type of man you want to be with? As a dating coach for women dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I highly recommend that you do. Developing a wish list is a great way to crystallize your vision of the right man. … Read more
Oh No, The Holiday Season Is Here Again! How can it be? It’s Thanksgiving today and that means Christmas and New Year’s are just a month away! Time flies whether you’re having fun or not. What’s your survival strategy this year? Do you need one or are you fine about the holidays? Not everyone feels … Read more
Hey Ronnie! My question: My attractive, sexy, therapist neighbor just told me he thought I was gay. GAY! As a single woman in her 50’s trying to find (heterosexual) love, and a man like him (he’s married, so, not him), I was devastated! I obviously am not putting out the ‘available’ vibe to men. I … Read more
I’ve known Janet for at least 10 years. Longer than I’ve been a dating coach. When I embarked on this new venture, she was very supportive, gathering up her girlfriends for my first at home dating workshop party. She had been privy to much of my own journey and was fascinated to hear every drop … Read more
Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, I am a 54 year old single woman from Seattle who is ready to find love. Just bought your book and am so excited to read it! I am staying positive about meeting the perfect mate for me! I’d like a mate who shares some of my interests like: music (jazz, R … Read more
Dear Over 40 Dating Coach, I need to start getting out there again. I am divorced, 54 and have been unemployed for 18 months. I haven’t spent much time looking to date since I’ve been focusing on the job hunt. But I’m ready to start doing something. What would be a good first outing? Thanks, Ready … Read more