Does He Have a Girlfriend? He Doesn’t Ask Me Out For the Weekend

Why doesn’t he ask me out on the weekend? Does he have a girlfriend? Discover telltale signs that you are not the only woman in his life. I Dated This Hot Guy for Weeks Did you ever date a guy who you had a great time with and saw weekly, but for some reason, never … Read more

Why Do I Attract Married Men And Emotionally Unavailable Men?

Wondering “Why do I attract married men and other emotionally unavailable types?” This question causes painful angst and confusion among single women. Read on to find out why this happens. Why Do Married Men Want to Date Me? There are so many reasons why this might be happening to you as a single woman looking … Read more

When to Start Dating After Divorce

Dating After Divorce Advice Are you ready to start dating after divorce?  The first thing that can help you decide is to determine how open you are. Is your heart open and free to love another? Are you open to meeting new men and finding one who is right for you? Do you appreciate men and what they … Read more

Dating After 40: The Man I Date Must Be Spiritual

Are You Dating After 40 and Seeking a Long-Term Partner? Are you dating after 40 and wanting a spiritual man? That’s certainly your choice. But is it a real deal breaker? What’s really important to you? He has to be spiritual As a woman dating after 40, you have some clear ideas about who the … Read more

Dating at 50: She’s Getting Married in Three Weeks!

  Dating at 50: Wedding Bells for One of My Dating Coaching Clients I just got this exciting email from one of my clients. I haven’t heard from Brenda in a while and this must be the reason! She’s getting married in just three weeks. You can read her note to me yourself “Hi Ronnie: … Read more

Dating Over 40: Brain Science Shows that Complaining is Bad for You

Complaining about men (or listening to man bashing) is destructive to your love life when you are dating over 40 or any time! I often write about how man bashing is for your love life if you are dating over 40. Talking poorly about men as a group brings down your energy and doesn’t help … Read more

Dating Over 40? Catch Olympic Fever to Meet Single Men!

As you know, right now the Olympics are hot. Everyone is buzzing about the games . It’s not only exciting, it’s a great opportunity for to meet single men! Don’t like sports? Come on now, this isn’t football. We’re talking about America’s darlings, the athletes that have been training for years for these few special … Read more

How Many Single Men Have You Met This Summer?

Do you know the simplest way to meet more single men? I’m going to share my #1 strategy that is a proven way to meet guys. Not only that, it’s free, it’s available to you almost any where you live and you can start right now. I started a new teleclass program on May 21st … Read more

Online Dating: 7 Ways Your Profile Sabotages Your Success

Online Dating: Does your profile scare men away? I know dating is not easy. And online dating causes a lot of stress for many women dating over 40 (or any age). You might think finding love online should be a natural process that’s easy and quick. It should be obvious how it works Unfortunately, none … Read more

Dating After Divorce: The Downside of Man Bashing

Do you think all single men are the same? Being a dating coach for 10 years now, I have noticed a trend which frankly troubles me.  Many women who are dating after divorce don’t respect men. They don’t value, like or appreciate men. You can tell by how they speak about men – both the … Read more

Top 10 Reasons Why Online Dating Is Your Next Step to Find Love

Too Timid to Try Online Dating? Here Are 10 Big Reasons to Get Over it Now! 1. Over 40 million people are online in the US. That’s a boat load of single people! And I can’t help but know that somewhere in all those millions, there’s a good match for you. Really, just let the … Read more

He Flirts with Me, So Why Doesn’t He Ask Me Out?

If you are wondering why, “He flirts with me but doesn’t ask me out?” read on to finally learn what that is really about. Has this happened to you? There’s a guy at work, church, or in your social circle. When you see him, he seems to light up. He seems very interested in what’s … Read more

I Want to Spend More Time Together, But He’s Too Busy to See Me

Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, “I’m in my late 40s and have been dating Norman for two years. He’s been married before as I have and we both have grown up families who live in our respective towns. Norman has been single for a long time, and although he’s lived with a few women … Read more

Dating Red Flags and Phone Relationships: Should I Take it to the Next Level?

Dear Ronnie, “I am  43, never been married and am currently talking to a guy (long distance) that I’ve known for about 3 years now. We met in grad school in 2008 and did not reconnect until March 2009 via phone. We’ve been talking ever since. He is now divorced and told me that he has … Read more

How “Adopting Dater’s Mind” Helps You Find Love Faster

Find Love Faster with a Mind that’s a “Clean Slate” Do you know anything about Zen meditation? I studied Zen for a while in the early 90’s. They talk about “adopting beginner’s mind” which means to be open, to keep a clean slate, to look at everything with new eyes. That’s why in my book … Read more

Atlantic Monthly: Are Women Forced to Choose Between Deadbeats and Players?

Atlantic Monthly Article is NOT the Final Word on Your Chance of Finding a Decent Man! In a recent article published in the Atlantic Monthly, there was a Bible-length article entitled All the Single Ladies on the plight of single women in America. I haven’t finished it yet because, frankly, I’ve got things to do. … Read more

Leap Year – It’s Sadie Hawkin’s Day. Will You Ask a Man Out?

  Happy Sadie Hawkins’ Day! Since ancient Rome was in power, an extra day has been added to February, giving the month it’s 29th day every four years. Due to the rarity of this day, many traditions have been created over time. Since the day is so unusual, it has prompted different cultures over the … Read more

On this Valentine’s Day, Are You Reliving the Past or Facing the Future?

What a day! Valentine’s Day brings out so many emotions! Radio and TV talk show hosts bash the day as nothing more than another Hallmark Holiday. But that is not true. Valentine’s Day is not just consumerism at its best. This day is anchored in ancient history. Way back in ancient Rome, girls and boys … Read more

Does Social Media Help You Find Love?

Can You Find Dates on Facebook and Twitter? Do you use social media on a regular basis? Some people can’t be bothered while others claim to be addicted. Either way, people are starting to meet new folks via social media and that is what I am talking about in this post. You can learn a … Read more