What Happens When You Know It All?

The Age-Old Question Continues – Why Didn’t He Call? Today I had a possible new client call me. Sandy is 32 and very well versed in today’s top dating books and self help gurus. Mention a book title or hot program to her  – Sandy knows all about it. I applaud her well-researched and in-depth … Read more

7 Ways You Push Men Away Without Even Knowing It

Could Your Behaviors Unknowingly Keep Men Away? How come men approach some women and not others? Do you watch men swarm around one or two “special” women at an event and wonder what their secret is? They might be flirting and radiating feminine charm and confidence to attract men. But, what if they just aren’t … Read more

Where to Find Love – Lots of New Research on Love

Where to Find Love That’s the proverbial question. As a dating coach for women who are dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I often explain that you can literally find love anywhere and every where. But it requires an attitude of love. Being loving is the first step to attracting the love you want. … Read more

He Says Loves Me – What Happened?

He Left, But He Said He Loved Me Hello Ronnie The Dating Coach, “I was dating this guy last summer and we had a wonderful time. He was all over me. When I was with friends and family he made me feel loved accepted. When we were alone, he was the sweetest thing. Flowers, gifts … Read more

Top 10 US Cities to Meet a Wealthy Man

Do you wonder where the rich men hang out? Maybe you’re curious if some places are better than others for finding the successful guys. What cities offer the best ratios of men to women? I’ve been doing a lot of research lately on the web for a new project I’ve got cooking (It’s a really … Read more

Online Dating Advice: Do You Take Rejection Personally?

Online Dating Advice Last week, the big topic was online dating rejection. Many of my dating coaching clients feel very angry and frustrated by their experiences online. They are confused and tired of being rejected senselessly. Women want to know why men:  Don’t respond to their emails Ask for your number, but don’t call Suddenly … Read more

Virtual Dating: Don’t Waste Time with Relationships that Aren’t in Real Time

Have you gotten involved in a relationship that involved  only email, IMing or texting? The guy seems really interested. He communicates frequently via technology. Some of the messages are really sweet. He updates you on what he’s doing and where he’s going. So why haven’t you seen much of him? And sometimes, you haven’t even met … Read more

Is it Hard to Keep Your Happy Face On When Dating Over 40?

When you go to a big event where you don’t know a lot of people, do you find it difficult to keep that happy smile on your face? If you said yes, I know what you mean. I just attended a 3-day workshop in Florida and people were simply loving it! While much of the … Read more

Dating After 40: Deal Breakers for Men and Women

Do you have a list of dating deal breakers? These are things about a man that you won’t tolerate. I hope you do, but if not, it’s time to make one up. This isn’t a list of the 40 irritating things guys have done in your past. These are the narrow few, completely intolerable behaviors … Read more

7 Top Tips to Attract the Love You Want

Back in April, I spoke at a holistic expo in Portland, OR. My friend Lisa, recorded my program so that anyone can listen to these proven yet simple strategies to find the love you want. Let me give you a sneak peak here so you can get an idea of what some of those powerful … Read more

Are You a Relationship Loser? Dating After Divorce

Have you had more than one long-term relationship?  Have you been married more than once? Do you feel like you pick the wrong men? A lot of people feel like a loser about their relationships. Maybe they’ve had a few long-term relationships that went south. And if you asked them how many relationships have you been … Read more

The Sun and Moon Align for Love

Today is a very special day astrologically speaking. I’m no aficionado, but I did a little research because ther seems to be a flurry or activity about today. July 1st, 2011 shares a Solar Eclipse and a New Moon. That’s big doings from the celestial point of view. The New Moon is a time of … Read more

His Hormones Make Him Withdraw?

Has this happened to you? You meet a guy and the attraction is undeniable. He seems very into you. He calls you and wants to see you. You’re having a really good time with him. But, then, he withdraws and becomes scarce. This can take several forms. Maybe he: Takes several days to contact you … Read more

He Chased You and Then Disappeared – 6 Ways to Recover

You are dating over 40 and maybe dating after divorce. You’ve been involved with online dating for weeks (or even months) and have finally met  a guy with some grip. A man who has captured your attention and piqued your curiosity. A man you want to get to know who seems to bring out your … Read more

Digital Flirting – Its Not Just for Politicians

Do you participate in digital flirting? That includes a myriad of activities such as texting (and for some – sexting), Facebook, Twitter, email and even Skype. An article in yesterday’s NY Times explained how the activity is more prevalent than you might think. But, its not really the teens who are participating heavily – its … Read more

First Date Flops – Keep Your Eating Habits to Yourself

Are you a picky eater? Maybe you have some dietary restrictions for health reasons. You might be allergic to dairy, wheat or nuts. Or you carefully watch your weight, so are very selective about food. None of this is really a problem… until you make it one. Last week several dating coaching clients who are … Read more

Dating Over 40: I Want a Man with Style and Money, But I’m Good as Is

My dating coaching client, Susan, is 43 with a few extra lbs. and a very casual style of dressing. Nothing wrong with that. She knows who she is and likes to be comfortable.  As her dating coach, I did ask her to be her best comfortable self while trying to attract a new relationship. She … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Meet Men at Alumni Events

Do you attend alumni events from your college? Start thinking about it because this is a viable way to meet new men! One of my dating coaching clients, Sarah, is very active with her alumni association. They have a CT and a NY chapter and she attends many events from both groups. Recently, Sarah was talking … Read more

Shift Your Perspective, Shift Your Love Life After Divorce

Yesterday, I had lunch with my friend Beth. She’s seeing a new guy and she’s reached the 3 month mark, a pivotal time in a new relationship. While she has really been enjoying Tom, he had begun doing a few things that started getting under her skin. Last weekend, as she began her drive to see him (the trip … Read more