Does He Have a Girlfriend? He Doesn’t Ask Me Out For the Weekend

Why doesn’t he ask me out on the weekend? Does he have a girlfriend? Discover telltale signs that you are not the only woman in his life. I Dated This Hot Guy for Weeks Did you ever date a guy who you had a great time with and saw weekly, but for some reason, never … Read more

Dating Over 50: Apply the Boston Marathon’s Positive Approach

Dating over 50 and feeling stressed out or disappointed? Apply the Boston Marathon’s positive approach to your love life! Are you having a hard time dating to find love?  I understand. As a dating coach for women over 40, I work with women every day who express their frustration, anger, fear and sadness. It’s not … Read more

Best Dating Advice to Find Love After 50

  Hoping to find love after 50? These ideas will help! Recently NPR did a piece on how online dating sites were helping older singles. Ina Jaffee interviewed Sam Yagan, the CEO of Match Group (Match.com, OurTime.com, OkCupid.com, BlackPeopleMeet.com). The company owns 30% of the $2 billion dollar online dating industry and he points out … Read more

Dating After 50: Why Dating is Like Shopping at T.J.Maxx

Are you dating after 50 and struggling to find the right men to date? In this shopping vs. dating tell-all post, I’m going to share my recent experience at T.J.Maxx and help you notice and consider the men who are available around you. Sounds crazy? Not really, as a dating coach for women, I see … Read more

Dating after 50: Should I Play Hard to Get?

Are you dating after 50 and confused about how it all works? According to a study which appeared in the European Journal of Personality last December, playing hard to get works! Four different experiments were done which revealed if playing hard to get works and when it works best. Turns out women fare better when … Read more

Dating After 50? 6 Ways to Get Your Sexy Back!

Need advice for dating after 50? Have you heard how 40 is the new 30? That means 50 is the new 40 and by the way, 60 is the new 50! But maybe you don’t feel so young and attractive any more. Have no fear – here are some easy ways to recapture that youthful … Read more

#1 Tip for Women Dating at 50+

Ready to Start Dating at 50+ But Have Been Out of Circulation for a While? When you haven’t been in the dating pool for some time, maybe years even, the idea of getting back out there can feel overwhelming.  You might be divorced, widowed, or single and have simply given up. So many questions plaque … Read more

Dating Over 40: Have We Become the Men We Want to Marry?

Gloria Steinem’s Quote from the 70’s Might Be Coming True 40 Years Later This is a totally crazy question isn’t it? Does it even make sense? After all, how could we become the men we want to date and marry? Let’s take a look at this idea. Back in the 1970’s, Gloria Steinem said, “We’re … Read more

Do Your Feathers Get Ruffled by the Way Men Talk to You?

I read a great post on the Dating Goddess’s blog about what language choice has to say about who your date is. I think there is a lot of information in how a person expresses him or herself and much that we can learn. The Dating Goddess (DG) is a very successful business consultant whose … Read more

Why Can’t Women Open Up to Love? A Widower’s Opinion

A few years ago I was teaching a continuing education class at a local school on finding Mr. Right. Much to my surprise, a man registered. No, he wasn’t gay looking for Mr. Right himself.  Fred was hoping to learn how to find Ms. Right after his dear wife of 25 years had passed away. … Read more

Expressing Regrets of Singleness at 68 – A Poignant Story

Some women are quite content being single. They have consciously chosen their single status and have been very happy with that choice. I am all for happiness, in or out of relationship 🙂 However, what is really important is to be honest with yourself about your desires…Because if you choose to remain single and “be done with … Read more

For Career Woman, What Mindset Works Best to Meet More Men

Are you a successful career woman? Do you have a high-paying powerful job? Are you a chick in charge? Do you have an independent streak that runs deep? If you answered “Yes” to any of the above four questions, congratulations on your success in life and business! That is great to have competed with men, … Read more

Are You a Relationship Loser? Dating After Divorce

Have you had more than one long-term relationship?  Have you been married more than once? Do you feel like you pick the wrong men? A lot of people feel like a loser about their relationships. Maybe they’ve had a few long-term relationships that went south. And if you asked them how many relationships have you been … Read more

Dating After 40: He Just Doesn’t Have the Spark

I’ve known Janet for at least 10 years. Longer than I’ve been a dating coach. When I embarked on this new venture, she was very supportive, gathering up her girlfriends for my first at home dating workshop party. She had been privy to much of my own journey and was fascinated to hear every drop … Read more

Dating Over 50: What Do You Recommend to Find Love?

Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, I am a 54 year old single woman from Seattle who is ready to find love. Just bought your book and am so excited to read it! I am staying positive about meeting the perfect mate for me! I’d like a mate who shares some of my interests like: music (jazz, R … Read more

Dating Over 40: Why Can’t We Be Friends First?

Today, I met with one of the first men I ever coached. It was great to see him, catch up and of course talk about dating. After 8 years, he looked exactly the same which is pretty darn good for late 50’s. Barry was in  a five year relationship that ended this past fall. He’s feeling like it’s … Read more

Dating Over 40: Just Starting Again at 54 – What’s the Best Way to Start?

Dear Over 40 Dating Coach, I need to start getting out there again. I am divorced, 54 and have been unemployed for 18 months. I haven’t spent much time looking to date since I’ve been focusing on the job hunt.  But I’m ready to start doing something.  What would be a good first outing?  Thanks, Ready … Read more

Dating Over 40: You Can Find Love Over 60!

I’m just thrilled to report that my client Filamina met someone recently! Filamina has been a dating coaching client for a short time, having had maybe only four sessions. She’s 62, widowed and has been single for 5 years . She wanted to get back out there to see if she might find love again. … Read more

Dating Over 40: Gail Found Love with her Dream Man at 50+

Photo credit Babi   Dear Ronnie: I attended your seminar in January of 2008 in Rhode Island.  Soon after, when my son became independent with his driver’s license, I made the decision it was time for ME. With the help of you and your website directing me to 50+’s dating websites (as monster and eharmony failed … Read more