Dating Over 40: Can You Mimic the Sensuality of Cat Woman?

Today on my morning walk, I noticed two young girls in costumes riding scooters. The older girl had on a super hero costume iI didn’t recognize. The other had on a black velvet leotard with black tights, two pointy ears on a headband and a plush black tail pinned to her bottom. The tail wagged … Read more

Dating Over 40: 5 Big Reasons Why You Must Post a Photo on Match.com

If you are going to write up a profile and answer all the questions on Match.com or any other dating site, for goodness sake, please post a photo. I am constantly amazed at women who tell me they don’t want to put up a picture. Why not? Well there are plenty of reasons. For example … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Do You Worry about the Future Before There is a Future?

Are you a natural born worrier? Answer these three questions and you’ll get an idea of your worry quotient and then learn what you can do about it! 1) Do you worry about the future potential a man might have before you finish the first date? 2) When you see a guy online who has kids, … Read more

Dating Over 40: The More People You Know, the Better Your Chances of Finding Dates

I found this great article today on MSN.com about expanding your social circle. Bascially the idea is, the more people you know, the more people they know. When you increase your social reach, you chances of meeting  "The One" get better and better. Dating is a numbers game. With that in mind, you can see what … Read more

Dating Over 40: A Flirty, Fun Summer – What’s That?

One of my newest clients asked me what a flirty fun summer is supposed to be like.  That’s what I’ve been talking about a lot lately. The idea involves enjoying yourself while flirting with men. But let’s take a step back further to really examine what flirty fun might mean. According to dictionary.com, the word … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Serving Up Rejection – The Best Way to End a Brief Relationship

Dear Ronnie, I have a question about how to break off with a man early in the process. Bill struck up a conversation online through Match.com. He had a nice profile, not bad looking, lots of the things I’m looking for and many things in common. OK, I was excited.  Bill said he’ll call Tuesday night. But he didn’t … Read more