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Manifesting Love – 3 Ways to Apply the Law of Attraction

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Have you tried using the Law of Attraction Love for manifesting love? The Law of Attraction is a Universal Principle that states “Like attracts like.” This works on an energetically – the non-verbal messages you send out into the Universe and how your own energy resonates. You want to be a match to the energy of the man you dream of.

Too woowoo for you? Surprisingly, this is no longer some “out there” concept, but has been scientifically proven by physicists! That’s what quantum physics is all about. They have recently proved that your feelings create energy or vibration and that attracts people and situations into your life.

Manifesting Love Through Your Inner Self

As your love and dating coach, I share these easy methods for manifesting love so you can find the right man as quickly as possible. It’s not enough to just swipe right or send messages online. You need to work on your inner self as well, not just the external dating activities.

For the Law of Attraction Love to work,  you need to focus on raising your vibration to the level of your desire. In other words, if you want a lasting, loving relationship, you must believe you can have it and demonstrate loving behavior on your own.

Become an Energetic Match for Love


This is how you embody the energy of love and raise your vibration to become an energetic match for the man you dream of and the love you deserve.

Below you’ll find three powerful methods for manifesting love and raising your vibration. I recommend using them all to ensure you raise your love vibe.

The key is to do them consistently. Frequent application will definitely elevate your vibration which is what makes the Law of Attraction Love work. That’s how you’ll be more attractive and magnetic to the love you want.

1. Write Your Affirmations

Anyone who talks about the Law of Attraction Love will encourage you to write your affirmations in a journal or notebook. You can also type them, but writing by hand works better. Listening to love songs or happy music while doing this will help you feel positive. That’s another way to raise your love vibration. to be even more magnetic.

Fill a page or write for 15 minutes, which ever feels best and do this every day. First thing in the morning is best for manifesting love (or anything) because it sets the tone for the day. If you miss a day, don’t worry, just start again and continue from there.

2. Develop a Song or Chant

manifesting loveI not only created affirmations, but I put them to music to manifest my husband.  You can write your own music if you’re creative or rewrite lyrics to a popular song.  I sang my affirmations all the time – in the shower, washing dishes, on my walk in the early morning (OK I stopped when people passed me by so I wouldn’t be embarrassed).

This is like having a personal song from the Ally McBeal TV show years ago. Ever see it? Its a very personal method for manifesting love which is why it really produces results.

My experience has been this works even better when moving your body. That’s why I sang while exercising to add another vibrational lift. With or without exercise,  sing until your heart fills and your smile feels contagious. This works!

3. Create a Vision Board


Create a vision board as a visual representation of your affirmation. It should illustrate how you’ll feel with the right man and what you’ll do together. Include words that describe him, how you’ll feel as well as photos. You can cut things out from magazines and also create them on your computer and print them out. A combination is good.

Avoid showing a man’s face because we don’t know who he’ll be. We don’t know what he looks like . Instead, use a silhouette of a man or lovers and also use the back of a man if you like.

Place your completed vision board somewhere you can see it often. The point is to visually stimulate the feelings to once again elevate your vibration.  If you are a visual person, this works really well for manifesting love.

Of course there are many other ways to apply the Law of Attraction Love, but these are three powerful ones to get you started.

To learn more about powerful manifesting love techniques, chapter seven in my book MANifesting Mr. Right has 4 more methods for you. Get your own copy now. Become a member of audible.com and you can download this audio book free!


Celebrating Hanukkah? Let the Festival of Lights Attract Love into Your Life

find love, Hanukkah, dating adviceIf you are single and celebrating Hanukkah, I want to share eight ways to shine a light on your love life. It’s time to leverage the Festival of Lights to peak into your attitudes about love and dating. That’s how you’ll discover what might be keeping you single.

Sometimes you are not even aware of what might be getting in the way of finding love. it can often be unconscious, but that self-sabotage does exist for so many midlife women. Once you clear out the attitudes that have been a stumbling block, then you are free to use the additional tips to attract love with the right man into your life.

I’ll give you the first tip here, but you can read the rest of the dating advice on the YourTango.com website.

1. Make a request.  As you light the candles and say the blessing, add on a personal prayer for love. While you are in that arena of spiritual intention, its the perfect time to make a request for a loving partner or husband. You deserve to having the loving relationship you dream of. By adding your own prayer to the candle lighting ritual, you raise your consciousness abut attracting the right man.

There are seven more dating tips waiting for you, so click over now and read the rest. You still have two nights of Hanukkah to take advantage of this dating advice!


Dating Over 40: Create an Affirmation to Leverage the Law of Attraction

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Have you created an affirmation about love yet? Working with me as your dating coach, That’s one of the first things we do. It’s easy really. Here’s how you can do it to start attracting the love you want today.

1. Think about the qualities you want in your romantic partner. Is he happy, successful, supportive, communicative, social, healthy, and a good listener? Maybe he’s got a generous heart, he’s spiritual or romantic? What ever qualities you want in a partner, make a list and include everything you can think of.

2. Can’t think of what you want but sure know what you don’t want? That works too! For example, if you dated a man who was cheap and don’t want that again, then ask for a man who is generous. If you dated a guy who was dishonest, you now want an honest man. If you dated a guy who was never around and wouldn’t talk about things, then you want a guy who is available and communicative. Turn what you don’t want around to be what you do want.

3. Now that your list is complete, take a moment to relax and center yourself. Read the list of all the great qualities you are looking for – this is your MANifesting list. Next, close your eyes and imagine it’s all true! Imagine that you have found each other. How does that feel? Suspend all judgment about whether or not this is possible. Simply believe it is for this moment and connect with the emotions around it. How would you feel?

Make sure the words you choose aren’t too simple like “good” or wonderful”. Think about emotive words such as “ecstatic, blessed, loved, cherished, blissful,  lucky, sexy”. Push yourself to choose words that are very descriptive because this customizes the affirmation specifically to you. How you feel about the right man is what matters most and makes this exercise powerful.

4. Finish this sentence: With the right man for me, I feel __________, _______, and _________. Just pick three or four, no more. You want to capture the essence of how great it feels.

That’s it! You’ve done it – the first step to MANifesting the right man for you. When you choose to work with me as your dating coach, I will help you refine your affirmation statements to get the best results. You’ll see how easy this process can be as you hear the affirmations and feel great when they sink into your subconscious mind and go out into the Universe.

That’s how the Law of attraction works – with like attracting like. So when you shift your beliefs and energy to feel how good you’ll feel with the right man, you are now vibrating at the level you desire. That means you can now attract the love you want!

 Check back tomorrow  for how to use this affirmation to apply the Law of Attraction to your love life.

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Dating After Divorce: Law of Attraction – Why You MUST Say Affirmations Out Loud?

This weekend I ran a workshop using the Law of Attraction to attract love. A lot of material was covered on how to create a powerful, customized affirmation for each class participant. After we completed the process, one woman asked me, “Do I have to say my affirmation out loud? What if I don’t’ feel comfortable doing that? I prefer to just visualize it while laying in bed.”

What a great question!

As a dating coach working with the Law of Attraction (LOA), I have discovered numerous ways to use affirmations. And,  trying a variety of methods is actually a smart way to go. However, here are some crucial elements of working with LOA to be successful. Here are five tips to help apply the LOA for the best results:

1. You need to be comfortable with your affirmation. Of  course it will be as stretch – you are reaching to manifest something you do not currently have. but it should feel good when you use your affirmation and leave you uplifted and with optimism.

2. Customize your affirmation. Make it specific to you.  For example, it’s great to repeat, “I am a man magnet” but what kind of man? Losers? Men who are emotionally unavailable or unfaithful?  Of course not! qualify those men in your statement:” I am a magnet for the right man, a good man who loves and respects me and fulfills my needs as I fulfill his.”

3. Give voice to your affirmation. I recommend to my dating coaching clients that they speak their affirmations. If you cannot say the statement out loud then you are not owning it, you are not embracing it, and hence you cannot not embody it. That means it won’t work.

In order for LOA to be effective, you have to vibrate at the level of what you want – that’s the way LOA works!  So if you can’t say the affirmation because it doesn’t FEEL comfortable, then you miss out on the vibration of your voice which allow the affirmation to permeate every cell in your body. Don’t not skip this step!

4. Sing your affirmations. In fact, I often recommend to my dating coaching clients that they put their affirmations to music. Even if you use the song “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star” and change the words to your affirmation, it can multiply the impact dramatically. Why? Because singing creates vibration!

5. Try several methods. When you try several different methods of using your affirmation, you will find the ones that resonate best with you. This makes a lot of sense because when you choose methods that feel good, you will do the work more often and it will permeate your being and subconscious mind  that much deeper.

Naturally there are countless ways to work with affirmations that will increase their effectiveness:

– Write them every day
– Make a treasure map to visually represent them
– Decorate a pillow on your bed with your affirmation
– Visualize them in a meditation

When you start working with affirmations, fully embrace them and don’t do it sparingly. The more you work with them, the faster they will work.

You can read more on how to apply seven powerful MANifesting techniques from chapter 7 in  in my book, MANifesting Mr. Right. Get your copy as a downloadable ebook, audio book on CD  or paperback today.

Dating Over 40: This Feng Shui Cure for Finding Love Worked like a Fairytale

This is the best Feng Shui story I’ve ever heard. My friend Krista, Feng Shui expert and energy healer told me about a client of hers who she gave this advise to and how well it worked.

Once upon a time, Krista’ had a client named Sherry. Sherry had already done a lot of Feng Shui work to her home with Krista to help her attract  love. She had two night tables, one on either side of the bed with one drawer left empty for “him.” She had emptied a spot (just a few inches of pole space) in her closet for when her man shows up in her life.

Sherry had also created an altar in the love corner of her home with many symbols of love. All of these steps are traditional ways to attract a loving relationship with the use of this ancient Asian art.

But still, the right man had not appeared. Mind you, Sherry was also going out and meeting men, doing online dating and getting fixed up by friends and family. She was certainly active. But the right man hadn’t managed to find her yet.

She spoke to Feng Shui FairyGodmother Krista who recommended this cure which I have never heard of. Krista suggested that our story’s heroine buy a pair of man’s shoes and put them in her closet. That sounded really crazy to Sherry. On the other hand  – what did she have to lose?

Sherry took a trip to TJMaxx and went to the men’s shoe department. There she looked at the rows of shoes, not sure what to get, or what size. She noticed that size 11 seemed to be the most popular size – there were more  11’s than any other size.

Sherry browsed at all the styles, varieties, and colors, and finally selected a pair of black Sketchers, size 11 and brought them home. Once home, she placed them  in her closet  with the intention that a wonderful man would soon come to fill those shoes.

A few weeks later, she met a great guy and really hit it off. But that had happened many times before which is why Sherry remained neutral and refrained from getting overly excited. Sherry knew the “we’ll see” attitude can help a single woman manage her enthusiasm to spare her heart and not get carried away.

On the second date they were taking a walk in her neighborhood and she decided spontaneously to ask Pete if he’d escort her to a dinner her friends were hosting that night at a restaurant in town. Pete, who lived out of town, said he’d love to, but didn’t  have anything but flip flops with him.

Sherry smiled as this thought came into her mind – I have the perfect pair of shoes back at my place.

“What size shoe do you where?” asked Sherry. Shockingly, “Size 11,” replied Pete. They went back to her place, he put on the  shoes which fit perfectly, and they went to dinner. The rest is history.

Great story huh? Quite a fairytale.
Cinderfella –  with a Feng Shui twist. Give it a try!