Single on Valentine’s Day? The Goddess Venus Shares Her Love

So you’re single on Valentine’s Day? Discover how to get through it with amazing wisdom from Venus, the Roman Goddess of Love.  We’ve been conversing on behalf of all the single gals out there who are feeling anxious about V-Day.

Ancient Goddess of Love

single on valentines dayAs a love coach for women, I managed to interview Venus (granted, through wildly unusual circumstances) to get her advice for my tribe of single women. It’s time to connect with her energy and your own divine allure.

Venus is the ancient archetype for feminine beauty and romantic love from Roman times.

Here’s what Venus shared with me…

Love Coach Ronnie: Venus, thank you so much for taking this interview. I’m sure you have so many things to look after being a Goddess and all.

Venus: Ronnie, no problem, it’s really my pleasure. As the Goddess of Love, it’s part of my duties to help every woman with love, her romantic life and sex appeal. Since I’ve been the inspiration for artists over thousands of years, I certainly have a lot of experience with this topic. (She giggles and smiles.)

Tap into Your Divine Beauty

Love Coach Ronnie: That’s wonderful Venus. Tell us, what is the best way for a woman to tap into her own divine beauty, especially if single on Valentine’s Day?

Venus: First and foremost, take time for yourself. Many women are well-versed in the mothering archetype, but tend to overlook or forget their own needs. That’s a shame. When you neglect yourself, it wears you down and drains your life force .

Self-care is a real method of honoring yourself which is fundamental to connecting with your inner Goddess. Nurturing your spirit is also form of self-love and as the Goddess of Love, I guarantee all love starts with self-love.

Pamper your body with good skin care, a great hair cut and color (if desired), and the right make up for you. Enjoy a spa day. Please drink plenty of water and get the rest you need (beauty sleep). It certainly helps to eat right – lots of vegetables and fruit. 

Nourish your spirit with quiet time, journaling, meditation, listen to soothing music or practice yoga. Indulge in a creative project or read something inspirational. When your ow love tank is full, you’ll be more productive and better able to care for others.

Your Sensual Nature

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Now let’s talk about heightening your sensuality. One easy way is to get a massage! Nothing like a little non-sexual human touch to awaken your senses and desire for contact. Touch is one of the most neglected of human senses in the modern world today.

Truth is, craving gentle touch is part of your human design. Other bodywork modalities will also work like Reiki, Therapeutic Touch, and even aromatherapy.

Love Coach Ronnie: What a great point you make about touch. I was single for most of my adult life until 40 when I started my dating journey. I rarely got beyond a hand shake or occasional hug from a girlfriend.

Hugging my friends wasn’t natural for me then. I didn’t even realize how much I craved a man’s touch or basic affection. So, that really rings true for me.

Is there anything else to help women who are single on Valentine’s Day get back into their sensual nature and create desire to inspire or motivate them take action to find love?

Venus: Baths are great. Luxuriate in a scented bubble bath, open a bottle of champagne, play some great music and treat yourself royally. Women today really need to know they are worthy and wonderful. Treasure yourself so you know what it’s like to be treated well and spoiled.

Beauty Goes Deeper Than Your Skin

Dating Coach Ronnie: Venus, since you are so classically beautiful, do you have any tips to share on how a woman can increase her allure and appeal while she’s out there looking for the right partner?

Venus: A woman’s beauty stems from how she feels about herself. Do you think you are attractive? Do you feel worthy of love? Believing these things about yourself is truly the key. Your mindset matters to appear as your most attractive self.

It also really helps for single women to believe that love is REAL and completely possible for each one of them. And I know that it is. Trust me, as the Goddess of Love, this is one thing I know for sure.

Know deep within your heart that you are worthy, attractive, and desirable. If you don’t feel connected to your own appeal, then do something about that! Buy new clothes that make you look fabulous. Get a makeover. Start an exercise program.

Whatever will raise self-esteem and improve your self-image is completely appropriate. Don’t skimp on building your confidence.

Feel Desirable

Here’s a great exercise I share with women who seek me out for help with their love life. Actually visualize yourself as someone men notice. Imagine that you are sexy, catch a man’s eye and feel good about that whole experience. Relish your ability to attract quality men easily.

When a man looks at you, he is admiring your beauty! Men are visual beings and a man’s interest starts with his attraction to you. The more you practice this visualization of feeling like you turn heads in a positive way, and the accompanying good feelings that stem from this ability, the more it will become your reality.

Happy & Single on Valentine’s Day

Dating Coach Ronnie: What can help my readers feel happy and  optimistic even though single this Valentine’s Day?

Venus: When you see others in love, leverage that energy for yourself. In other words, rather than feeling badly about other people being in love, see them as proof love is alive. Know that if they found love you can too! This is a powerful energetic method to elevate your love vibe, lifts your spirits and helps you attract the love you want.

So much of being able finding love is about your own love vibe. When you feel optimistic for your romantic future, you are FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE and magnetic to bringing love into your life. That’s actually how the Law of Attraction works. When you feel loving and positive about love, you attract it!

Another way to pump up your love vibe is to recognize the love you do have in your life right now. From friends to colleagues, children and pets, it all counts as love. Even self love counts! The more loving you are in the way you treat yourself and others, the stronger your love vibe is.

A Goddess Blessing For You

single on valentines day Dating Coach Ronnie: Venus, that truly is magical insight. I can’t thank you enough for your wise words about improving our love vibe.  I hope we can talk again sometime.

May I ask Venus, please share a blessing with my tribe and do whatever you can to help them find the love they want and deserve. I want all the single ladies to enjoy  love even if single on Valentine’s Day.

Venus: It’s been my pleasure to share my wisdom and Goddess ways with you. Count on me! I will do all I can to facilitate love for your readers who are single on Valentine’s Day. Cupid is my son, so I’m doubly connected in the love department.

I’ll put in a good word for every woman who reads this post to help her find the love she dreams of. And in this very moment, I send you my blessing for love and more, with loving energy Goddess style. Open up your heart now to embrace the love!


Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony,, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

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