Online Dating Isn’t Always the Problem: Could It Be You?

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Stop blaming online dating as the reason for your single status.

I just read a scathing post from Charles Orlando about online dating and its “web of lies” on YourTango. There’s no question that the author’s points had truth to them, and were backed up with facts and statistics. However, as a dating coach for women over 40 with 11 years experience, I can tell you there is more than one side to this story. As the old adage goes, I refuse to throw the baby out with the bath water.

The idea of a web of lies is a convenient excuse for why you might still single. Excuse me for saying so — it’s just that I have found many women don’t understand how to make the most of online dating, and their misconceptions create unfortunate experiences.

Read the rest of my rebuttal including points about statistics, scammers, low success rate, how people love to complain and a bit on how the online dating  sites do cheat a bit on using the promised matching algorithms.


Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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