Millionaire Matchmaker – A Tale of Two “So-Called” Nice Guys

Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger

The Arrogant Nice Guy and the Guy with TMI Turn to Patti Stanger for Dating Help

I must apologize for being so far behind on my Millionaire Matchmaker commentaries! Not sure how that happened exactly, but let me catch you up on a couple of episodes.

The tale of two nice guys includes finding matches for a previous client, Ayinde, who has his own growing radio business. At first glance, Ayinde seems like a nice guy and his mannerism reflect this. But what comes out of his mouth demonstrates something far different.

He has this absolutely crazy idea that he deserves a woman in the top 1% of all women. (Those aren’t his words, they are my interpretation). He wants a woman of exceptional beauty who went to an ivy league school and is super successful.

Guess what Ayinde – you need a good shot of Realism 101, Ronnie -Style. You are not “All that” yourself. Yes, you are good looking but not a 10 in my book. You aren’t super suave, sophisticated or charming either. You seem smart, but I’m quite sure there are smarter. One thing I know is that you are the king of picky!

Then, to top it off, you blamed Patti for your less than perfect date with Bracha who was absolutely gorgeous and very bright if you ask me. I don’t know how she put up with your charity activity date where you tested her in several different ways. I’d advise any of my dating coaching clients to take off in a flash if they saw a hint of your snobbery and controlling behavior.

Since you are far from perfect, I highly recommend that you drop the “Perfection Criteria” right now, or as Patti told him, he can expect a long and lonely life without female companionship. Good for Bracha – she’s freed up from this imbecile!

Now for Mitch, the over-sharing, Maserati-driving single dad. Well, the good news is Mitch did much better than Ayinde. Patti warned him about over sharing and he did still talk too much about his ex-wife – a No NO of HUGE proportions for anyone on a date. Really Mitch, you gotta learn to “zip it.” After drinking some wine and petting a camel (something everyone should try on a first date – NOT), things were looking up for Tova and Mitch.

Well I suppose this is another solid Bravo TV week and their Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger. Dishing up more episode dirt and details  to follow!

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony,, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

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