Dating Over 40: Looking for Catholic Men over 60?

Just got a call from my client, Kathryn who after three weeks on line says, "There are so many men! My sister advises me to just see two at a time, but that’s hard to do!" How cute is that? And how tremendously exciting. Kathryn literally giggled like a school girl.

Let me tell you how this all started. Kathryn is 61 and a widow.  She really wants to meet a Catholic nice man, but where? She didn’t want to go on line – yuck. She already did that and it was horrible!  We checked into local area churches and unfortunately, none had singles activities for her age bracket. We googled everything we could think of to find Catholic singles activities, but came up empty handed.

Call me a die-hard if you will, but I went back to the online thing. I poked around the Catholic singles site and found that had the largest number of men in Kathryn’s age bracket in her area. So I made a case for her to try online dating again, because honestly, with a religious requirement, I’m just not sure how else to find the guys.

She decided to try again and signed up.

Ladies, if you are over 50 and Catholic, try this site or check into the other similar sites. Do a search on each site to see how many men are in your age bracket and geographic area. If a site doesn’t let you search – SKIP IT!  Forget AveMaria singles  and others like it and stick to the ones that give you a PREVIEW of who is out there.

Then write a profile or call me for help, post it and feast your eyes! Who knew there were so many men on these religious sites?

Other big Christian sites include and . But there are literally tons of these religious sites and many are very well populated.

Get out there and start looking. You could have  a date for Valentine’s Day if you get started right now.

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

2 thoughts on “Dating Over 40: Looking for Catholic Men over 60?”

  1. Hi Maryjane,

    I suggest browsing a few of the catholic web sites – such as,, There are quite a few. Go on the site, put in your age requirements and zip code and see how many pages of men show up. Then I’d pick the site with the biggest inventory. And avoid sites that won’t let you browse like this before signing up – you wouldn’t buy a car you didn’t drive first right? Other than the Internet, you might see if the churches near you have any singles activities. Good luck out there!


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