Women ask me all the time – How can I meet men? Whether single or dating after divorce, they groan and seem anxious and tell me they don’t know how to even get started! I’ve been right there with you, in those shoes of a single woman not knowing where to find a decent man. Then I decided to figure it all out and I did!
As a dating coach with 11 years experience, I can tell you that my suggestions are proven and well researched – both by me personally, and by reading what countless other experts have to say. I compile this information to share it with you because my deepest wish is that you find love just like I did.
3 Simple Ways to Meet Men
Before I go into the list, did you know that only 10% of the adult single male population actually knows how to approach a woman? That might surprise you, it’s true. Just think of all the millions of dollars the Pick Up Artist community rakes in trying to help men meet women. So if you are waiting for the men to do all the work, you could be waiting a very long time.
Now I’m not talking about being aggressive or asking men out. Not at all. I don’t believe in that because I know it doesn’t work. I get countless letters every week from women who have tried it, had things not work out and want to know what to do next. Sadly, I tell them to move on to find a man who will pursue them.
OK, here they are – the 3 simple tips to meet men – a lot more of them!
1. Smile Pretty. I know I’ve said this hundreds of times, but you can count on me to repeat this again. Why? Because it’s the single strongest option in your attraction tool kit. When you smile, you look pretty, you look friendly and your desirability index soars!
Yet, most women just don’t do this. Yup they do not smile and instead turn away if they notice a man who is looking at them. Sound familiar? I bet it does. Try smiling first before you turn that pretty face around to meet men.
2. Flirt! Flirting can happen on several levels at the same time. I’m not talking about aggressive flirting when you are all over a guy. What I’m suggesting is using your feminine charm and body language to let men know you are open to talking to them. You are available and want to meet men. And you can do that without saying a single word!
Body language includes smiling and 2-3 seconds of eye contact – not much more! Playing with your hair, smoothing your clothes, sipping your drink with a straw, playing with your jewelry, wearing clothing with an open neckline that shows off your collar bones, crossing your legs, then uncrossing them. These unspoken signals tell a man you won’t bite his head off if he gets up the nerve to approach you, even if he’s not smooth like George Clooney. But give the guy credit for taking the chance!
3. Verbal Flirting. Don’t worry – this isn’t some super skill you have to develop. You simply have to practice striking up a conversation. Don’t start with the most handsome guy you ever saw. Start with regular men who don’t intimate you and by the way, you might discover some of those regular guys are pretty wonderful once you get to know them.
What do you say? Try things like:
-What brings you here tonight?
-How do you know the hostess (at a friends’ party)
-I love this song, don’t you?
-What a great band – do you like them?
-Did you taste that? It looks good.
-Is that beer good? I’ve never tried it
As you can see, this is not rocket science as they say. Ice breakers are the simplest lines. And here’s the biggest secret about starting a conversation with a man, most men will be THRILLED that you did this because now they don’t have to be the one to start.
Just stay for five minutes or less, then move on. If he wants to talk to you again, he’ll come find you.
So that’s it – the top 3 best ever tips to meet men. You might think these things can’t possibly work, BUT THEY DO. They work like a charm – your feminine charm! Turn it up and your attraction power explodes to meet men like you never dreamed possible. Women who do this are happily shocked to find out how unbelievably easy this is and how well it works.