How to Attract Men: Visualize What You Want

If you want to know how to attract men, here is a powerful exercise that can help. Visualize what you want and spend time in that fabulous energy!

how to attract menI woke up today thinking about the panel discussion I’m doing tonight sponsored by the biggest newspaper in the state. OK, I’m a little nervous about it. So I was ruminating and fretting over what might happen. What if the moderator asks the wrong things or I think the questions are dumb? Will I speak well and maintain my cool?

Visualization is the Answer!

Then it hit me! Oh yeah, I should be visualizing what I want to happen rather than worrying about what I can’t control. Who knows what the moderator will ask. But there is something I can control and that is ME! What do I want to happen? How do I want things to do? How do I want the audience to think of me? How can I best portray myself and what I offer single women?

I have spent numerous years studying and applying the Law of Attraction, yet I still forget to use this powerful tool for manifesting. Even though I used these methods successfully man times and to find and marry my husband! I could I forget? Well, I guess I am human.

Once I remembered how to channel my energy, I began focusing on the outcome I desired instead of worrying about what I didn’t want. So much better! I thought about being well-received, saying the right things, shining my light and sharing inspiration for all the single gals who might attend. I want to sit up straight, look great, make a good impression and discover new opportunities.

After visualizing a happy and positive ending to the panel discussion tonight, I felt great. I felt empowered and optimistic. So, what has this got to do with you, dating and finding love?

Visualize Love if You Want to Know How to Attract Men

You can use this very same method of visualizing what you want as the outcome of singles events or even looking on The more time you spend feeling good about what you are doing and how it will bring you what you want (i.e. love with the right man), the better your energy feels. The higher your vibration, the more magnetic you are which is how to attract men.

Yes, this is exactly how the Law of Attraction works. Since “Like attracts like,” the more time you spend in positive, happy energy about finding love, the more likely you are to actually attract it. So this is it – stop fretting, worrying and spending loads of time feeling lonely and disappointed. Focus on what you WANT not what you DON’T WANT.

The best way to attract men is to be happy and confident. You want to spend time feeling that love is possible for you. That the right man for you is out there and he’s looking for you! When you feel great about who you are, optimistic about love, and remember you are a great catch, you are far more appealing to quality men.

Even if you aren’t so sure about your chances for finding love, pretending you have the potential still works! Your imagination is another powerful tool to help you manifest your dreams. Your body and subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between reality, imagination and dreams – they all count towards building your energy at the cellular level.

So, that’s how you attract men like moths to a flame. Spend time imaging what the love you long for. Pretend and fake it till you make it if you have to. Make yourself magnetic to love today by thinking about the happy outcome you want as often as humanly possible.

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

2 thoughts on “How to Attract Men: Visualize What You Want”

  1. Men rarely approach me, they just stare and follow me, I feel as though they expect me to approach them or make the first move to talk to them, I feel as though men should approach the woman first, as I like a man to have courage despite his fears.

    • Hi Sara Lou, I agree its traditional for men to approach first. Staring is impolite. And yes courage is a good quality. My question to you is are you smiling to let them know you are friendly an open to being approached? Share a smile with a little eye contact – and they should come over after that.

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