You are about to find out the most powerful, yet simple flirting tips for women that work like a charm every time. Find out how it can work for you!
Do You Know How to Flirt?
According to Mama Gena (from the School of Womanly Arts in NYC) flirting is a fun, playful spontaneous way to interact with men and have your way with them.
Personally, I know its fun and very effective. Even though I am married, I still flirt because its incredibly entertaining, lightens the spirit, and doesn’t do any harm because it’s actually meaningless. Let me explain.
You see flirting does not automatically imply something sexual. Flirting holds no promise of something more or deeper. Its simply a way to capture a man’s attention or create a fun communication exchange.
First let me share a story from my life and then I’ll share super simple flirting tips that any woman can use right away.
My Story about Flirting
Have you ever wished you could get some help in a tight spot? Happens to me all the time, especially in the grocery store. Everything I want is on the top shelf and I’m vertically challenged. As a result, I’ve gotten used to seeking out men to help me by flirting with them.
Some of the best flirting tips come from necessity!
Saturday I had a booth at the CT Women’s Expo. I had to bring my own table, chair, table cloth, banner and stand, books, audio CDs, etc. It was a lot to carry as you can imagine.
As I was unloading my stuff in the parking lot I wondered how I was going to manage to carry everything inside to my booth. I took a breath to think about this and looked around me. That’s when I noticed the two men a few cars over who had a cart with wheels.
I didn’t spend several long minutes trying to come up with the right words to approach these men. I simply blurted out the very first thing that came to mind. “Wow, I wish I was your best friend.” Then I smiled. That’s one of my great flirting tips – ask for help.
Men Want to Help
These gentlemen in their mid 50’s didn’t catch on at first and one asked me, “Why?” I was honest, “Because you have a cart with wheels.” They responded with a good laugh. Then they graciously offered to bring my table and chair to my booth for me.
What a relief! Thank you! Flirting and playing the damsel in distress work well together.
We talked a bit more as we entered the building and rolled to my spot in the arena. I honestly don’t know how I could have done that myself. Too much stuff and much too heavy.
I thanked my lucky stars my mom taught me how to flirt. She didn’t give me actual lessons, I just watched and remembered what she did. But, the good news is, it’s so simple and I can teach you!
Can you see how this might come in handy at Home Depot, in a crowded bar, or a big party? Use your imagination to think about all the places you might need a bit of assistance. Young old, beautiful or average, it works! This is one of my top flirting tips.
Non-Verbal Flirting Tips & Body Language
1) Smile pretty. When you smile, you dramatically increase your attractiveness. And this separates you from most other women who have some how forgotten how to smile, especially at men. This is so simple, but the most important of all my flirting tips.
2) Enjoy 2-3 seconds of eye contact, before gracefully turning your head away. (This lets a man know you are safe to approach. Most men don’t like to be rejected and will avoid it at all costs.)
3) Look up at him afterwards briefly, to show him you are checking in. Just be super quick about it!
4) Be friendly. Put on your friendly face and be open and willing to talk to new people. Yes, that means strangers too!
5) Be kind. For every man you notice looking at you, there are many more you didn’t notice. When you are kind to one man, other men will see that and be more willing to approach.
Men Are Flattered When You Flirt With Them
It’s a rare occurrence when a man hasn’t responded to me when I flirt. The truth is, men appreciate when you flirt with them! It’s flattering, fun for them too, and makes them feel attractive and desired.
They know it’s just flirting because they do it too. So, you don’t need to be all worried that a man will expect something more from you. That’s one of the best flirting tips around. Stop worrying and just enjoy it.
Flirting Uses Your Feminine Charm
If you feel nervous or are worried your actions will be misunderstood, keep in mind that flirting is just the next step beyond being friendly. Use your feminine charm and work it simply because you can. Its your birthright to flirt. this behavior is coded into your DNA. Flirting ensures survival of the species. Start to use this lost art and let me know how you do!
Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony, MSN.com, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.
Hey, I didn’t know I was considered flirting! I do all that stuff naturally, with no intention of flirting. I’m happy and enjoy talking to people, male or female, young or old. I get hit on a lot, even though I’m not looking.
Rosanna, well you are sending out the friendly, flirty, I’m available vibe. You make it easy for people to approach you. This will serve you well in life even if you are already with someone. You are naturally likeable and happy!