To Find Your Love Try This Fresh Approach

find your loveI know you want to find your love but maybe you’re tired of the dating scene. If you said you were, I would totally understand. So many of my clients tell me how tired of it all they are. It’s not easy and there are so many frustrations, annoyances and disappointments that can really get to you.

After listening to so many clients complain, I started thinking about what could help? What could make finding love easier and more fun? How can I help lighten up the process and bring back the joy? I love to shake things up. That’s why I have come up with something completely new and different.

Let me ask you a question. When was the last time you felt love? When was the last time you felt connected to that emotion where your heart is wide open, you are excited about your day, and you felt like you were practically bursting with love, hope and good feelings about the world?

I bet it’s been a while. Maybe too long.

Do you want to shift your energy? Are you ready to take this empowering step? Let’s shake things up shall we?

Find Your Love By Being Loving

Here’s what I want you to do. It’s a simple thing really but it has the potential to completely shift your energy. This is the basic premise. To attract love, you have to embody love. You have to be loving. But how do you attain this state in your every day life? I’m going to share some ideas below.

1. Start with Gratitude. Nothing is more uplifting than feeling grateful for what is going well in your life right now. Everyone has something to be grateful for. No matter what you are facing or dealing with, you can express gratitude for a new day dawning. Blue sky and sunshine. Your children or pets. Family or your job.

It’s human to focus only on what you don’t have yet or what is missing in your life. That’s why so many experts advocate for gratitude practice. It puts you into a highly positive zone where you can attract more good things into your life…to find your love with a good man.

2. Shower of Love. When you step into the shower, imagine the streaming water to be washing away energies that no longer serve you. Then, imagine that love is streaming out of the shower head, washing down over your body, filling your pores and aura with loving energy. I recommend using pink light or picturing the water as a pretty pink that represents love. What a great way to start your day!

3. Love Yourself – Look Pretty. Choose to wear an outfit that you know will make you feel pretty. Wear something you would wear if you were going on a date tonight with an amazing man. That’s how you can find your love – act as if it’s already happened. This is how you can love yourself throughout the day. When you look good you feel good, so take a few extra minutes to make sure you look your very best.

4. Love Yourself – Energize your Food and Drink. Before you take a bite or sip, take a moment to energize  your food with love. Place your hands on the cup,  glass, plate or bowl, or even the food itself. Focus your thoughts on loving energy and then imagine it flowing into the food or drink. Then enjoy! You are now drinking in love through the food or beverage you have chosen to nourish your body.

5. Share Your Love. As you go off to work, smile at people. Whether you are walking or driving, when your eyes meet with someone, give them a big smile. This is you sharing your loving nature with the  world. You will make their day and put a bounce in your step as well. Plus, this is a great way to find your love as you meet men with an open, loving heart.

Keep Love Flowing

There are many ways to keep love flowing through out your day. The main point is to choose to focus on your consciousness on loving energy, being in it and sharing it generously. The more involved you are in the love fest, the more loving you will be. You cannot lose and there is no downside to holding love as your focus.

Tomorrow morning when you wake up, give these suggestions a try. Or why wait until then? Start right now by feeling a shower of pink light rushing over you and waking up your love energy right now.

To find your love, being loving. The more you open your heart and life to love, the more likely you are to find your love and attract the right man and find your love. This is the Law of Attraction in actiton.

Here’s to feeling more love today than you ever thought possible as a single gal.




Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony,, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

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