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Online Dating:  Stay Positive While Dating

More about online dating – this post is a continuation from yesterday. If you struggle with how to stay positive while dating, read on.


“Hi Ronnie – The Dating Coach for Women

Thank you for the helpful ways to handle online dating disappointment and smart conversation tips you posted yesterday. I feel lucky because I haven’t spoken of those taboo topics most of the time unless someone else brought them up first.

However, I have come to recognize that having more than one glass of wine with a first date is not such a good idea.

Right now I’m having trouble feeling lovable due to all of this fickleness from online dating. But, I do know that I need to keep moving if I want to find love.  I’d like to have a good relationship and to tell you the truth, there aren’t many cheerleaders like you out there.

Is it really possible for woman of 52 to find love – the love of her life? I hope so. It didn’t happen with my first marriage  which was a long one. Can you help me to find more hope so I can keep going?

Thanks for your support

Kim from Michigan”


To Attract and Find Love, Validate Your Own Lovability

Hi Kim,

Yes! You can find love! Finding love is completely possible, even over 50, 60, or 70+. One of my clients just wrote this note to me over the summer sharing her excitement and success:


“Dear Ronnie:

My fiancé and I are marrying in three weeks. I met him online about 1 year and four months ago. Although I dated others and him for the first month or so, he soon asked me to be exclusive and the rest is history. Thanks for all of the work you do with all of us who want to find lasting love! I am 55, with two special needs son, so I am proof that your tips work!

With love, Brenda from CA”


My advice to you is to be the love you want to attract. Know that you are lovable as you are. Do not look outside yourself for this validation even though you may feel tempted. You do not need this proof from the men you are meeting. They do not validate your lovability – you do.

To find love, embody the love you want to attract. Love yourself more every day. Spend time believing and knowing down to the core of your heart and soul that love is your destiny.

Without question, love is your destiny. You can find love. You are lovable! But, when in doubt – love yourself a little bit more. Find things you love about life. People you love, flowers, clothes, sunshine, snowflakes, the Christmas season even. Whatever allows you to focus on and feel more love in your life. This is how you embody love and attract love into your life.

From the Law of Attraction,” like attracts like”. So when you love yourself and your life, you bring your energy or vibration up to the level of what you desire – LOVE! That’s how it works, the more love you feel, the more love you attract magnetically. There is no other outcome.

You WILL find love. You will attract HIM. I have complete faith in you and in love 🙂

Lots of love to you,


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Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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