Is Your Love Mindset Crushing Your Chances for Love?

A positive mindset magnetically attracts more love into your life. How strong is your love mindset and do you think you’ll find love with the right man?

positive mindset How Do You Feel About Love?

Take a moment right now to ask yourself, “How do I feel about love?”

Do you feel like love is possible? Do you think you will surely find a good man to spend the rest of your life with?

Or, do you think all the good men are taken and love has passed you by? Maybe you hope for love, but aren’t sure it will ever happen. Could be you aren’t certain what to do to improve your odds and have sort of given up.

In this post, I’m going to share how important a positive mindset is about love and how to improve your outlook, so you will be more MAGNETIC and ATTRACT THE LOVE you dream of.

A Positive Mindset Attracts Love

If you’re looking for love, your success completely depends on your love mindset. Is it a positive mindset, hopeful and knowing that it’s just a matter of time before love is yours?

To attract a quality man into your life, you need a strong belief that love is your destiny. Wavering about what you want or doubting love is possible actually gets in the way and ruins your chances.

Why Mindset Matters

When you believe in love, you live with love. Love is part of the way you live your life. That means you are naturally more loving, which comes through in your interactions with people.

Believing in love translates into feeling good about love.

That positive mindset towards love also influences how you see the world and feel about your chances to find and keep love. Everything hinges on this positive mindset. It’s really the most fundamental element for finding love.

So, when you believe in love and have a positive love mindset, you automatically attract more love into your life. Without doing anything else.

How Negativity Gets in the Way


On the other hand, when you are down on love and don’t believe you will find a good man to love, that dramatically impacts the opportunities that come your way.

If you don’t believe love is your destiny, then you might not stay active and look for love. You won’t put yourself out there to meet men or get online, try the apps or attend a single’s event. You’d think why bother, nothing’s going to work anyway. So, you severely limit yourself right there.

When you spend your time talking about what you don’t want in a man or why you won’t find a good one, that’s the downtrodden energy you send out into the Universe.

The Law of Attraction

According to the Law of Attraction, “Like attracts like”.  Your negativity attracts more negativity and most likely what you don’t want!

That’s the whole point of the Law of Attraction – when you stay positive, more positive situations naturally come your way. That’s  because the energy you are pumping out into the world is negative. See how that works?

positive mindsetFocus on the Positive!

That’s why you need to keep your eyes on the amazing possibilities that are available to you. The more you train yourself to live with a positive mindset, the better off you’ll be. This is one of the biggest reasons people use affirmations.

What is an affirmation? It’s a  positive statement said in present tense as if it’s happening now. For example, a good affirmation would be , “The right man for me is out there and he’s looking for me now.” Or, “True love is my destiny and the right man for me is on his way now.”

The Point of Affirmations

The reason why people use affirmations is to spend time in a more positive mindset. So, when you come up with a series of love affirmations and say them out loud regularly, your focus is automatically more positive.

But there’s another important aspect about this. Your emotions have an energy or vibration to them which is why how you feel and your love mindset matters so much. You want to keep your vibe about love elevated – a higher vibration.

Saying your affirmations out loud works far better than writing them or repeating them in your head. That’s because the human body is about 75% water. When you speak, air vibrates through your vocal cords and then vibrates the water in your body at the same time!

Now your energy has been elevated to the level of your desire for love, which means you are now aligned with what you want. Your vibration has been raised to the level of the love you want!

This makes you practically magnetic to attracting that love and another example of how the Law of Attraction works. Yes!

5 Powerful Love Affirmations


These love affirmations below can be used every day. I write affirmations for my private clients, tailored specifically for their individual desires. In the meantime, these five will get you started.

  1. I am love and share my love with the world.
  2. My heart is open to love and attracting love right now.
  3. I am a magnet for true love and know love is my destiny.
  4. Wherever I go I meet interesting men.
  5. I attract love easily into my life now.

If finding lasting love is your goal, this is not something casual to consider. Instead, shift to a positive mindset and do you best to stay there as much as possible. The more time you spend feeling optimistic about love, the more likely you’ll find a great match.

If you want to raise your love vibration and have more loving energy to share, listen to my free audio program 8 Ways to Raise Your Love Vibe

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony,, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

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