Dating Over 40: Do You Hate Weddings? Turn Things Around with the Law of Attraction

Do you hate weddings? Are you sick of attending the nuptials of your friends and family? Do you dread the inevitable questions about when you’re going to settle down or marry again?

You are not alone. For so many single women, going solo to yet another knot-tying event is nothing short of stomach-turning. I myself retired early from accepting the so called honor of being a bridesmaid. I had no desire to be like the main character in the movie 27 Dresses.

But there is another way of looking at all this wedding fuss. If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction, you know that the way to get what you want is to embody that energy of what you want right now, as if it were actually happening to you today. Why? Because like attracts like. What better way to connect with the joy of marrying the man of your dreams then to attend a wedding ceremony?

Here’s how to turn around the wedding blues by applying the Law of Attraction:

1. At weddings, while you and other singles may feel unhappy, the couple is elated. – Raise your energy to match their excitement and happiness. Be happy for them and feel their happiness to make yourself energetically attractive.

2. Happily married couples who are guests, .are also likely to be happy because they remember their own festivities. Why not emulate their happiness too?

3. Many people just like a party so you can tap into that happy party feeling as well!

4  Keep in mind that if this particular couple managed to find each other, click, enjoy each other enough to want to get married, you can probably do it too! Use the scenario as a gleaming example of what is possible, for them AND for you as well.

When you make it your intention to become aware of the energy present and find ways to leverage it for your own manifesting plans, you are utilizing the Law of Attraction to it’s fullest. And that is a very wise way to be. When you find ways to feel happy, and turn around unpleasant situations to find the silver lining, you are right on track to managing your energy pattern. An elevated vibration regarding weddings is perfect to magnetically attract .your own wedded bliss.

Find a way to be happy for the newly weds. Find a way to enjoy the party. Find a way to imagine your own happiness in this situation, even if your future feels bleak – because if they got married, you probably can too. Leverage all of this energy, happiness and success to make yourself more attractive. Manifest the love and wedding you want and deserve.

I found love and married, many of my clients have done it, and I know deep in my heart, you can do it too.


Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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