Do you think all men are dogs? Terry MacDonald, blogger at www.DatingAdviceAlmostDaily.com explains why that’s not a great belief system. According to the Law of Attraction, what you think of as truth and choose to focus on is what you attract. Therefore , if you do believe all men are dogs – guess who you’ll likely meet? Dogs!
I read the whole article as seen on Salon and I must tell you it really surprised me. The writer, Joshua, admitted publicly, that although his wife wanted a threesome with a beautiful European woman, he did not. He felt foolish, wondering what was wrong with him since his wife was offering him something every red-blooded American man should want. But not Josh. Nope.
He explained the difference between the types of love. Eros, is love and sexual desire. Where as Venus is immediate sexual desire. Probably this is the hot chemistry and flying sparks some of my dating coaching clients say they just can’t do without. But you see, it’s not Eros, love and desire combined – its just lust.
So, if you think all men want just one thing, Josh has publicly admitted that YOU are WRONG. He is a loyal man and doesn’t want any part of cheating, straying or sharing. Thanks Josh for your shocking honesty – giving women dating over 40 the knowledge that good men, solid, honest guys, truly do still exist.
Visit Terry’s site for all kinds of great dating advice. She frequently inspires me.