Dating Over 40: Carolyn’s Dating Coaching Session #2

Last night, Carolyn, from Carolyn’s Date Life on Facebook, had her second dating coaching session.

The good news? Carolyn did her homework! Yeah!!!

She managed to talk to 5 men over the week. She also had a couple of epiphanies that have the power to shift her dating life to a new and better place.


  1. On many days, she doesn’t do more than work with her fitness clients and go home. Carolyn realized she doesn’t always even see men during her everyday life!  This is something that needs attention immediately.
  2. When she is out in public, Carolyn’s normal way of being is to stay on task, focused on what she has to get done, rather than looking up and noticing people. Never mind talking to anyone! This is something else that needs her attention.

Carolyn realized that she needed to keep these things top-of-mind. I refer to this in my book, MANifesting Mr. Right, as “Dater’s Mind” borrowing from Zen and it’s beginner’s mind.  Zen teaches the practice of mindfulness – and this is exactly what Carolyn can benefit from. If you are dating over 40, this mindfulness is crucial to your success in finding love.

Listen to our session to hear what her homework is for this week as she continues the 90 Day Challenge and meeting at least 5 guys per week to meet her goal of 50 MEN!

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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