Love & Dating Coaching

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Are You a Smart, Successful Woman 35+, Tired of Being Alone or Frustrated by Dating, But Still Wish You Could Find Love?

You probably spend time wondering…

  • Where can I meet men?
  • How can I attract a quality man?
  • What am I doing wrong?
  • Why is dating so very hard?
  • Is it my fault I’m alone and single?
  • How can I make better decisions about men I date?
  • Why do other women have luck online but not me?
  • Is there something wrong with me?

Why Is Finding One Decent Man So Incredibly Hard?

You’ve thought about looking for love a lot and maybe you’ve made an effort to meet someone special. Yet, here you are still single. And you’re worried that:

  • You could be alone the rest of your life
  • It’s too late and love has passed you by
  • You don’t know where to even start looking
  • There aren’t any good men left
  • You’re not attractive enough to compete with younger women
  • You only attract losers or the wrong types of men

You may have hired experts in other areas of your life like an accountant to do your taxes and a landscaper to do your yard, but haven’t thought about how a dating coach could help…until now.

What Is It about Modern Dating that Makes It
So Confusing and Difficult?


To make things even tougher, everything about looking for true love has changed! The rules seem totally foreign than even 5, 10 or 20 years ago.

You really have no idea how to navigate the emotional waters of dating in this new modern way. Never mind all the new ways of doing things like dating apps, online dating and so much texting. You aren’t even sure who should pay for the date.

Looking for Love after 35 or 40 Can Be
Baffling and Heartbreaking!

Did you ever attend classes on finding love in high school or college? Of course not! That’s not part of the typical curriculum. It probably wasn’t a lesson your parents shared either.

Singles everywhere think they should just KNOW how to find love – as if this is knowledge you are born with. That dating should be an innate skill that can be simply picked up organically. Too bad that’s not true!

Since dating today is so different than even five years ago, it’s not your fault if you don’t know how things work best, what turns midlife men off or how to quickly spot a game player.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Maybe I need dating coaching,” you probably do.


You’ve had to rely on girlfriends, family, and what you picked up from TV, movies and the media to get your methods for finding love. Where to meet a man, how to flirt and be irresistible, where to find quality men, and how to understand them.

But are these the best sources for something as important as choosing the right man for a lasting, loving relationship?

People close to you might not know, might not be objective or willing to say something that could potentially hurt your feelings. Often friends and family say what they think you want to hear which is actually not all that helpful.

If you’ve worried why you haven’t found the right man yet, what you might be doing wrong or not doing, maybe it’s because you need to have a proven plan.


Dating Is a Journey that Requires a Plan

In the past you may have done random things to meet a man without much strategy or thought. You did whatever came to mind in the moment. But what if you had a plan with proven methods to connect with the right man for you?

With my smart, down-to-earth Dating Coaching, you’ll get the proven guidance and methods you need to find love again by the most direct route possible.

Coaching Works for Dating Like GPS Does for Driving

When you’re driving to a new location, you turn on your GPS. As a dating coach, that’s what I do for you. I serve as your guidance system so you arrive at your desired destination – love with the right man – by the best possible route.

I provide loads of free dating advice in my newsletter, my popular blog with over 500,000 visitors or in free teleclasses. But there is a big difference between knowing what to do and actually TAKING THE STEPS. I’ll be there to hold your hand through the process and cheer you on to meet your romantic partner.

It doesn’t matter where you live or what your romantic history is. There is nothing wrong with you so don’t even go there. Your current situation boils down to the simple fact that there are things you don’t know about single midlife men and what works best to find love today.

If You’re Serious about Finding Love, Work with Me to Get Proven Strategies that Deliver Results


I’ll reveal my simple method to easily understand men and how they think to save you from confusion, frustration and potential heartbreak. When you choose to work with me, you’ll find out:

  • Where to find quality men and how to recognize them
  • How to stop wasting time with men who not serious about you
  • Why a man’s attraction to you goes deeper than your looks
  • How to be a great first date and get more second dates
  • Why successful women think they intimidate men and what to do about it
  • How to strike up a conversation with a man without being aggressive or looking desperate
  • What sparks, hot chemistry or instant connection really mean about a man
  • The best way to manage your excitement about a man with potential
  • Why what he says means little and what he does means EVERYTHING
  • The best time for intimacy and how to protect your heart

I Used these Exact Methods to Find My Man and You Can Too!

Together, we’ll talk about your situation and then go through my proven step-by-step process that has helped countless single women before you. It’s the same method I used to meet the man I married after dating 30 men in just 15 months.

From healing your past, to attracting a quality man, to finding “The One” for you, I will support and guide you to get the results you want – lasting love with a supportive man who enjoys life. A great companion and a partner to be there for you through thick and thin. Smart women invest in their goals and happiness.

With my Private Dating Coaching, you’ll find out EVERYTHING you need to attract the love you dream of. You’ll feel confident about interacting with men, more in control, and gain the skills needed to connect with “The One”.

Private Love & Dating Coaching with Ronnie

First, please fill out the session application

After reviewing, I’ll send you a link to my calendar to schedule the complimentary session. This session is for exploring what might be keeping you stuck and preventing you from finding the love you want.

Once we figure that out, then we can make a plan to get past these obstacles.

Love & Dating Coaching Are Right for You If…

  • You enjoy life now, but you still want to find lasting love
  • You are tired of doing everything alone and want someone to share your life with
  • You might be dating now and want to find out how to quickly weed out time wasters so you can meet “The One”
  • You understand there may be things you don’t know about men and dating, but are open to learning
  • You take responsibility for your mindset, outlook on love and actions to find it
  • You are ready to making finding love a priority now
  • You want an expert you can rely on who has found love herself after 40 and will be there to share everything that works so you can find love too

We’ll work by phone in the USA, or Skype/Zoom outside the US. Private Dating Coaching with me is completely customized to your specific needs, romantic history and what you are looking for in a romantic partner.

Dating Coaching

Should I Wait Until I Start Dating?

No, not at all! We can begin now so you are fully prepared when you are ready to mingle and start dating. When you align with love and know how midlife dating works before you start, you’ll create an ideal foundation to meet and attract a quality man – the kind you hope for.

Discovering what works BEFORE you start dating takes the pressure off so you can smarten up about modern dating without worrying about messing anything up.

What If I’m Dating Now But, Haven’t Met the Right Man?

That’s also the perfect time for dating coaching – when you are in the  thick of things. I’ll help you with understanding men and clear up confusion so the path to love with the right man for you becomes clear. Eliminate any blocks or misconceptions currently getting in the way and minimize all the drama.


Are You Ready for Love with the Right Man?


So if you’re ready to find the lasting love with the wonderful man you dream of, I’m committed to helping you. You’ll build skills for interacting with men more easily, discerning who has true potential, discover how to remain calm so you don’t blow it, and gain the feminine confidence quality men find so attractive!


What’s Included?

The Package

In this all-inclusive package you’ll have my support for two-three months with 8 weekly 45-minute sessions.

Plus, you’ll have access to the My Time For Love which is a comprehensive online learning program with recorded modules, full length books, meditations and so much more, covering every aspect of dating.

If you’re already dating, we’ll find ways to handle any challenges. And, if you haven’t dated in a while, we’ll get you ready to start.

You’ll discover everything you need to know to attract a quality man and find the lasting love you want. You’ll enjoy .

PLUS, I’ll also write your online dating profile, help with dating apps, provide extensive photo tips, help you select your best pictures and give you ideas for texting and emails.

Most importantly, you’ll get all the essentials for building confidence for relating to men and ensuring you radiate feminine charm (exactly what a masculine decisive successful man wants).

There are many more benefits, so let’s talk about everything that’s included.



Gain Access to My Extensive Dating Library of Materials


You’ll have full access to My Time For Love, my online learning program packed with incredible programs and resources. No matter what your romantic history is or personality type, you’ll get the empowering strategies, sharp insights and simple tips anyone can successfully put to use to find love.

There is over $1,000 worth of additional materials included!

  • My Time for Love (8 hours of recorded classes, plus books and audios ($497 value)
  • How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle Online (4 hours of recorded classes, plus other materials)
  • I Believe: Affirmations to Attract Love Now – Audio program
  • I’m So Alluring – Visualization Audio to feel more desirable and sexy
  • 8 Ways to Raise Your Love Vibration and loads of mindset options
  • How to Stay Positive on the Dating Journey – Audio program
  • 5 Ways to Attract Quality men – Audio program
  • Confidence is Sexy – Audio program
  • Is He the One? – Amazon Bestselling Book which radically simplifies understanding men
  • MANifesting Mr. Right – My Flagship Book and trusted guide to find love over 40
  • 5 Surefire Techniques to Eliminate Blocks to Love – Audio program
  • Flirt School –Enhance and use your feminine charm (2 hours of recorded classes)
  • 12 First Date Mistakes that Ruin Your Chances for Love – Book or Audio
  • 9 Red Flags to Watch for When Dating Divorced Men – Audio program
  • 10 Myths about Online Dating that Keep You Single – Book or Audio
  • Does Your Texting Make You Look Confident or Desperate? – Audio program
  • 10 Things You Must Know Before Dating After Divorce – Audio program
  • Why Can’t I Find Love?  – 28 reasons why you might be struggling – Book
  • And more exciting titles and topics

Maybe the Reason You Haven’t Succeeded So Far Is…


Because you’ve been doing this alone. You haven’t had the expert support, insight and personal guidance tailored specifically for you to clarify the process and make dating easier.

You haven’t had an expert to ask, “What did he mean by that?” or “Why did he do that?” I can clear up all of the mixed signals men send that confuse the heck out of you.

Whatever you need to find The One, I am here to help and encourage you, so your dream of love becomes your REALITY. He’s real, he’s out there. Begin attracting him into your life today!

Get Started Now!

Fill out the session application and schedule your free 45-minute session online right now.

Here’s What My Clients Say about Love Coaching with Me…

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Just Got Engaged!

“Coaching with Ronnie, I realized I had been doing things all wrong! Once I put her methods and advice to work, the difference was amazing. What I learned was invaluable. Her insights, especially around femininity and letting the guy lead, are profound. It’s also really fun. I met the most wonderful man and he is wildly in love with me! We just got engaged.

Being a widow in my 50s, I never thought I find another good man and without your help I don’t think I would have. Thank you, thank you, thank you.”


Here’s My Wedding Photo

“Thought I’d share a wedding photo with you – all of your great advice sure is a good part of why I found and MARRIED the right guy for me!  I still read, recommend and follow your monthly advice — even more important when married I think!”

AmyHollywood, CA

Ronnie Changed My Life!

“Working with Ronnie changed my life. She helped me understand the dating strategies that work. Her methods helped me feel confident and shift my mindset to be more realistic about what to expect and handle rejection more easily. I dumped my baggage which was limiting me and keeping me from finding love.

Then bam! I met this great guy and it has been so easy from that point on. This relationship is looking really good and I am so excited. If you are serious about getting into a relationship, you’ve got to talk to Ronnie.”

dating coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

My Self Doubt Melted Away – Now I’m Married!

At first I wondered if I could really find love using Ronnie’s method, but as the weeks went by I started noticing single men everywhere. Even better I made sure I talked to as many as I could. I actually gave myself a goal of talking to at least three men each time I attended an event (i.e., the Museum of Fine Arts First Friday, a Boston Ski and Sports dinner or even drinks after work).

My inhibitions and self-doubt melted away as I got more and more practice. I competed with a friend to keep myself motivated and it worked! I met over 63 men!

Now I’m married to a wonderful guy who I don’t think I ever would have considered if I hadn’t built up my skills in your program. I tell all my friends about you since following your advice help me achieve my goal – marrying an amazing man!”


Dating My Ideal Man

“Before working with Ronnie, I hated online dating and honestly I went kicking and screaming. I told her I couldn’t do it and was going to shut it all down. Ronnie talked me through this during my private coaching session and later that same day I met the most incredible man.

Chris is the ideal man for me and he gives me everything I want. It’s a little shocking in a good way that finding love with the right man is really possible.  And if it wasn’t for Ronnie, I would never be in this relationship.

What really changed things for me was the accountability – I did my homework because I had promised. Sometimes you just needed that extra push. And she helped me be far more conscious to take control of finding love and get active as opposed to sitting around hoping to find the right guy.

This investment in my life has been the best ever! You’ve got to be in it to win it. Learning to trust and be open again and that I’ll be OK made the difference. I highly recommend you do this for yourself – it’s so worth it!

SabrinaNew York City

Stopped Being Afraid and Found Love

“Ronnie, thank you so much for your compassionate dating coaching which helped me start dating again after years. With your help, I changed my approach completely, learned how to use online dating to my advantage, set boundaries and flirt using my feminine charm.  That made a huge difference.

Your suggestions and strategies all worked great!

And now I’m happy to say I’ve been dating my dream man for over a year! In my late 50’s I was so afraid I’d never find love again. I thought for sure love had passed me by and I would face the rest of my life alone. Thanks for holding my hand through the dating process which I had been terrified of.

I want to encourage other women to work with you too, so they can get the same fabulous results!


With Ronnie’s Help, It’s Now Raining Men!

I sometimes have 3-5 dates in a week and am having the time of my life. Ronnie will show you how to make online dating work for you like you never dreamed was possible before.

Here’s the secret: Just follow the plan. The things Ronnie suggests aren’t hard.

Once I gave myself permission to be open and approachable my life changed! She told me to smile at men, say hi, talk about anything even the weather. She explained how to use your feminine energy where I had always felt silly before doing these things and it worked!

She tweaked my online profile – I’d been online on and off for a couple of very frustrating, soul crushing years. Now the response has been amazing! Thank you for rocking my world!

Dating Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

Feel More in Control and Optimistic

“I’ve been dating a wonderful man for 3 months now and wanted to thank you for all your help! I learned so much, particularly how to avoid dating disasters. With your insightful guidance, I feel so much more in control and equipped to navigate the dating waters. It’s been a blessing having you by my side. I am very grateful for your advice and encouragement through the ups and downs of dating.”


Couldn’t Be Happier

“Once I decided to work with Ronnie, she gently held me accountable to follow through on my goals in a compassionate way. This encouraged me to keep promises to myself which in the past I might have wiggled out of.

So, when it came time to go to the singles dance, I went even though I didn’t want to go at all. Good thing I did because I met the man I’ve been with for two joyous years and couldn’t be happier. He is everything I have been looking for but didn’t think I would ever find. But I have!

Ronnie has tons of very helpful information that‘s specific to my situation like how to flirt. She encouraged me relax and be authentic and myself which made all the difference.”


Found My Match

Deciding to work with Ronnie has made all the difference – to really focus on my desire for love rather than filling my life with other things. Don’t get me wrong – I enjoy all my activities. But previously I pushed my desire for love out of my mind because I didn’t think it was possible.

Admitting it’s OK to want love has been freeing and rewarding too.

Ronnie also helped me see how important it is to build my intention around finding love which has been amazing. Her guidance for making sure a man is available – really available – has been eye-opening and so insightful.

She wrote a dating profile that delivered an astonishing number of quality men and now I’m dating a man who is a great match for me. Thank you Ronnie!”

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Finally Meeting Great Men

“If I hadn’t decided to work with Ronnie, I’d still be thinking about dating but not doing anything. With Ronnie’s coaching, I feel stronger now, more encouraged and have a lot more clarity about the dating process and what to do.  And, I’m meeting men!


Learning Self Respect and Love

“Ronnie, your coaching has already been very useful to me.  I’d recently been contacted by a beloved ex and I was finally able to draw the line to tell him I cannot be your friend. I know to most that sounds pretty simple but for me it’s huge. I’m learning to love and respect myself.  So, thank you!”

JackieBaltimore, MD

Connected with the Abundance of Men

“Ronnie introduced me to the concept of abundance and I really connected with it. Suddenly, there are so many men. I can now meet a man, decide if I’m interested and if not, move on to the next. I’m enjoying each man, since they all bring something different to the table.

I don’t take their rejection personally anymore either. This is a wonderful new phase of dating for me!”

LouiseWest Haven, CT

Never Would Have Thought Dating Could Be a Blast!

“Ronnie, thanks so much for your Digital Dating Makeover. You are right! There are quality men on Match – A LOT more than I dreamed. I’m keeping an open mind as we discussed and connecting with a good number of men! This is so exciting! I never thought dating could be fun after 50 but I’m having a blast.”

AbbyNew York City, NY

We’re Now Exclusive

“I decided to get serious about meeting a man and having a relationship and so I hired Ronnie. After just four weeks of private coaching sessions with her, I met a wonderful fellow on Match. We’re now dating him exclusively!

Ronnie’s coaching and advice are priceless. She’s helping me maneuver through the phases of relationship now and really knows her stuff.

I’m indebted to her for not only meeting a great guy, but for understanding me and correcting the mistakes I made in past relationships. She is a gem of a dating coach!


Found My Soulmate!

Working with Ronnie was wonderful! She broke down my resistance to opening my heart to love, and she did it in a funny way so that I laughed at myself rather than condemn myself. I listened to her CD I Believe as well and my confidence grew.

Ronnie is so positive and encouraging – I would recommend her to anyone looking for love!


My Romantic Life Was Over – Now I’m Dating Up a Storm

“Two years ago, a guy I really thought was “the one” dumped me and I was heartbroken.  Since that time, I hadn’t met anyone who remotely tweaked my interest.  Now over 50, I began to think “my romantic life is over”.  Then I signed up for Ronnie’s coaching.

I wasn’t looking for “the love of my life”; I simply wanted a little romance back and some handsome, interesting, accomplished men to date.  Internet dating and singles events weren’t for me.  But I made time to go to parties and other business/social events and followed Ronnie’s advice about flirting whenever I went out – even for groceries.

Ronnie’s system works! The regular calls keep you accountable and her off-line guidance through emails etc. is particularly encouraging. Within six weeks, attractive, available men were showing up everywhere and suddenly, I was being courted by four of them!

Thanks Ronnie – your help made a HUGE difference.”

BeverlyNew York City

I’m Proof Your Coaching Works!

My fiancé and I are marrying in three weeks. I met him online about 1 year and  four months ago. Although I dated others and him for the first month or so, he soon asked me to be exclusive and the rest is history.

Thanks for all of the work you do with all of us who want to find lasting love! I am 55, with two special needs son, so I am proof that your tips and coaching work!

BrendaPasadena, CA

Getting Married Next Weekend

I took one Ronnie’s workshops early last year. I found the class to be very practical with a ton of useful advice. Above all, it gave me the courage to “get out there”. Why am I telling you this? I’m getting married next weekend. Thanks for that little push!

TinaChicago, IL