Private 1-on-1 Dating Coaching

If You’re a Smart, Successful Single Woman Over 40, Tired of Being Alone or  Frustrated by Dating, It’s Time to Get Help Finding Love Again.

You probably spend time wondering…

  • Where can I meet men?
  • How can I attract better quality men?
  • What am I doing wrong?
  • How can I make better decisions about men and dating?
  • Who can help me understand men?
  • Is there something wrong with me?

You may have hired experts in other areas of your life, but haven’t thought about how a dating coach could help…until now.

When you’re dating over 40, it can be so confusing. They didn’t teach you how to find love in high school or college. So, you relied on your girlfriends, family, and what you learned through the media about flirting, how to be irresistible to men, where to find quality men, and understand men.

Dating Is a Journey and the Destination Is Love

With my savvy, down-to-earth Dating Coaching, you’ll get the guidance you need to find love again by the most direct route possible.

When you’re driving to a new location, you turn on your GPS. As a dating coach, that’s what I do – I serve as your guidance system so you arrive at love with the right man by the quickest route possible.

Most single women think they should know how to date and so they go it alone, relying on their own knowledge and hope for the best.

Some women turn to friends and family for advice and risk burdening them or burning them out. Or worse, your friends and family are not always objective or knowledgeable. Nor do they always tell you the real truth you need to hear.

I provide loads of free dating advice when you subscribe to my newsletter, read more than 1,000 blog posts and sign up for free teleclasses. But there is a big difference between knowing what to do and actually TAKING THE STEPS.

It doesn’t matter where you live or what your romantic history is. The truth is there is nothing wrong with you. It boils down to the simple fact that there are things you don’t know about single midlife men and what works best to find love today.

Dating Coaching will make a difference.  When you work with me, you’ll gain insight into everything you need to know about the world’s favorite topic: how to find true love. I’ll also reveal my simple method  to easily understand men and how they think which will save you so much confusion and frustration.

With Private Dating Coaching, You’ll Get Proven Strategies and Time-Tested Tips that Deliver Results

When you choose to work with me, you’ll find out:

  • Where to find quality men and how to recognize them
  • How to stop wasting time with men who not serious about you
  • Why flirting, texting and calling you don’t necessarily mean ANYTHING about a man’s intentions
  • Why a man’s attractive to you goes so much deeper than your looks
  • How to be a great first date and get more second dates
  • Why successful women think they intimidate men when they really turn them off and how to easily turn this around
  • Why the #1 dating tip for women is to do NOTHING and what that means for you
  • How to strike up a conversation with men without being aggressive or looking desperate
  • Why sparks, hot chemistry or immediate connection are NOT signs of the right man
  • The best way to manage your excitement about a man with potential and why that matters
  • Why what he says means little and what he does means EVERYTHING
  • How to hold off on intimacy and protect your heart until you know a man is worthy

I Used these Proven Methods to Find My Man and Now You Can Too!

Together, we’ll talk about your situation and then go through my proven step-by-step process that has helped countless single women before you. It’s the same method I used to meet the man I married after dating 30 men in just 15 months.

From healing your past, to attracting quality men, to finding the right man for you, I will support and guide you to get the results you want – love with the right man for you. Smart women invest in their goals and happiness.

With my Private Dating Coaching, you’ll find out EVERYTHING you need to attract the love you dream of. You’ll feel confident, more in control of dating, have the skills needed to connect with “The One” and actually enjoy dating.

Private Dating Coaching

Dating Coaching Is Right for You If…

  • You have a good life now, but you still want to find lasting love
  • You are tired of doing everything alone and want someone to share your life with
  • You might be dating now and are ready to meet a quality man and quickly weed out time wasters
  • You understand there may be things you don’t know about men and dating, but are open to learning
  • You take responsibility for your mindset, outlook on love and actions to find it
  • You are ready to making finding love a priority now
  • You want an expert you can turn to on your journey who has found love herself after 40 and will be there to share everything that works so you can find love too

We’ll work by phone or Skype depending on where you live. Private Dating Coaching with me is completely customized to your specific needs, romantic history and what you are looking for when it comes to love.

Ready for Love with the Right Man?

So if you’re ready to find the lasting love with the man you dream of, I’m committed to helping you with Private Dating Coaching. There are two levels of service to choose from:

1) The Fast Track 3 Month Package

In this comprehensive package you’ll have my support for three full months, as well as access to the Dating Vault Library filled with incredibly helpful resources on all aspects of dating. If you’re already dating we’ll work through any challenges and if you haven’t dated in a while, we’ll get you ready and active.

You’ll discover everything you need to know to meet quality men and find the love you want. I’ll also write your online dating profile and review your photos. There are many more benefits so let’s talk about everything that’s included.

2) The Comprehensive 6 Month Package

Sometimes women want more time with me. For example if you haven’t dated in over 5 – 10 years, you may have more questions or feel more hesitant than someone who is currently dating. No problem, I specialize in hand-holding. Or if you are dating a lot and you want to go over everything happening, this package is perfect for you.

I know how dating over 40 comes with it’s own challenges and needs vs. being 20 or 30 something. You’ll get everything included in the Fast Track 3 Month Package, but more one-on-one time to clear up confusion, dispel myths, dive into the details and get you on track to find the love you dream about.

What’s in the Dating Vault Library?

The Dating Vault is packed with incredible home-study programs and DIY (Do-It-Yourself) resources to provide additional strategies, empowering insights and simple tips anyone can successfully put to use. There are over $500 worth of materials included!

  • How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle Online (4 hours of recorded classes, plus other materials)
  • I Believe: Affirmations to Attract Love Now – Audio program
  • I’m So Alluring – Visualization Audio to feel more desirable and sexy
  • How to Stay Positive on the Dating Journey – Audio program
  • 5 Ways to Attract Quality men – Audio program
  • Confidence is Sexy – Audio program
  • Is He the One? – Amazon Bestselling Book which radically simplifies understanding men
  • MANifesting Mr. Right – My Flagship Book and trusted guide to find love over 40
  • 5 Surefire Techniques to Eliminate Blocks to Love – Audio program
  • Flirt School –Enhance and use your feminine charm (2 hours of recorded classes)
  • 12 First Date Mistakes that Ruin Your Chances for Love – Book or Audio
  • 9 Red Flags to Watch for When Dating Divorced Men – Audio program
  • 10 Myths about Online Dating that Keep You Single – Book or Audio
  • Does Your Texting Make You Look Confident or Desperate? – Audio program
  • 10 Things You Must Know Before Dating After Divorce – Audio program
  • Why Can’t I Find Love?  – Book with 30 reasons why you might be struggling
  • And more exciting titles and topics

Get Started Now!

Call me at 203-877-3777 to schedule a free, 20-minute Dating Discovery Session. We’ll talk about your situation and see how I can be of help. Or fill out the Dating Discovery application and schedule your session online right now.


Success Stories

“Thought I’d share a wedding photo with you – all of your great advice sure is a good part of why I found and MARRIED the right guy for me!  I still read, recommend and follow your monthly advice — even more important when married I think!”

AmyHollywood, CA
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“Coaching with Ronnie, I realized I had been doing things all wrong! Once I put her methods and advice to work, the difference was amazing. What I learned was invaluable. Her insights, especially around femininity and letting the guy lead, are profound. It’s also really fun. I met the most wonderful man and he is wildly in love with me! We just got engaged.

Being a widow in my 50s, I never thought I find another good man and without your help I don’t think I would have. Thank you, thank you, thank you.”


“Working with Ronnie changed my life. She helped me get a grasp on the dating strategies that work. Her suggestions helped me shift my mindset to be more realistic about what to expect and handle rejection more easily. I dumped my baggage which was limiting me and keeping me from finding love.

Then bam! I met this great guy and it has been so easy from that point on. This relationship is looking really good and I am so excited. If you are serious about getting into a relationship, you’ve gotta talk to Ronnie.”

dating coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

Ronnie’s program completely changed my love life. At first I wondered if I could really do this, but as the weeks went by I started noticing single men everywhere. Even better I made sure I talked to as many as I could. I actually gave myself a goal of talking to at least three men each time I attended an event (i.e., the Museum of Fine Arts First Friday, a Boston Ski and Sports dinner or even drinks after work).  My inhibitions and self-doubt melted away as I got more and more practice. I competed with a friend to keep myself motivated and it worked! I met over 63 men!

Now I’m dating a wonderful guy who I don’t think I ever would have considered if I hadn’t built up my skills in your program. I tell all my friends about you since following your advice help me achieve my goal – marrying an amazing man!”


“Before working with Ronnie, I hated online dating and honestly I went kicking and screaming. I told her I couldn’t do it and was thinking of shutting it all down. Ronnie talked me through this and later that same day I met the most incredible man. Chris is the ideal man for me and he gives me everything I want. It’s a little shocking in a good way that finding love with the right man is really possible.  And if it wasn’t for Ronnie, I would never be in this relationship.

What really changed things for me was the accountability – I did my homework because I had promised. Sometimes you just needed that extra push. And she helped me be far more conscious to take control of finding love and get active as opposed to sitting around hoping to find the right guy.

This investment in my life has been the best ever! You’ve got to be in it to win it. Learning to trust and be open again and that I’ll be OK made the difference. I highly recommend you do this for yourself – it’s so worth it!”

SabrinaNew York City

“Ronnie, thank you so much for your compassionate dating coaching which helped me start dating again after years. With your help I learned to how to use online dating to my advantage, set boundaries and flirt using my feminine charm. Your suggestions and strategies all worked great!

And now I’m happy to say I’ve been dating my dream man for over a year! In my late 50’s I was so afraid I’d never find love again. Thanks for holding my hand through the dating process which I had been so afraid of. I want to encourage other women to work with you too so they can get the same fabulous results!”

Dating Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan

“I’ve been dating a wonderful man for 3 months now and wanted to thank you for all your help! I learned so much, particularly how to avoid dating disasters. With your insightful guidance, I feel so much more in control and equipped to navigate the dating waters. It’s been a blessing having you by my side. I am very grateful for your advice and encouragement through the ups and downs of dating.”


“Once I decided to work with Ronnie, she gently held me accountable to follow through on my goals in a compassionate way. This encouraged me to keep promises to myself which in the past I might have wiggled out of.

So, when it came time to go to the singles dance, I went even though I didn’t want to go at all. Good thing I did because I met the man I’ve been with for two joyous years and couldn’t be happier. He is everything I have been looking for but didn’t think I would ever find. But I have!

Ronnie has tons of very helpful information that‘s specific to my situation like how to flirt. She encouraged me relax and be authentic and myself which made all the difference.”


Deciding to work with Ronnie has made all the difference – to really focus on my desire for love rather than filling my life with other things. Don’t get me wrong – I enjoy all my activities. But previously I pushed my desire for love out of my mind because I didn’t think it was possible. Admitting it’s OK to want love has been freeing and rewarding too.

Ronnie also helped me see how important it is to build my intention around finding love which has been amazing. Her guidance for making sure a man is available – really available – has been eye-opening and so insightful. She wrote a dating profile that delivered an astonishing number of quality men and now I’m dating a man who is a great match for me. Thank you Ronnie!”

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“If I hadn’t decided to work with Ronnie, I’d still be thinking about dating but not doing anything. With Ronnie’s coaching, I feel stronger now, more encouraged and have a lot more clarity about the dating process and what to do. And, I’m meeting men!”


“Ronnie, your coaching has already been very useful to me.  I’d recently been contacted by a beloved ex and I was finally able to draw the line to tell him I cannot be your friend. I know to most that sounds pretty simple but for me . . . huge, I’m learning to love and respect myself.  So, thank you!” 

JackieBaltimore, MD

“Ronnie introduced me to the concept of abundance and I really connected with it. Suddenly, there are so many men. I can now meet a man, decide if I’m interested and if not, move on to the next. I’m enjoying each man, since they all bring something different to the table. I don’t take their rejection personally anymore either. This is a wonderful new phase!” 

LouiseWest Haven, CT

With Ronnie’s help, it is now raining men for me! I sometimes have 3-5 dates in a week and am having the time of my life. Ronnie will show you how to make online dating work for you like you never dreamed was possible before.

Here’s the secret: Just follow the plan. The things Ronnie suggests aren’t hard, and once I gave myself permission to be open and approachable my life changed! She told me to smile at men, say hi, talk about anything even the weather. She explained how to use your feminine energy where I had always felt silly before doing these things and it worked! She tweaked my online profile – I’d been online on and off for a couple of very frustrating, soul crushing years. Now the response has been amazing! Thank you for changing my world!


“Ronnie, thanks so much for your digital dating guidance. You are right! There are quality men on Match – A LOT more than I dreamed. I’m keeping an open mind as we discussed and connecting with a good number of men! This is so exciting! I never thought dating could be fun after 50 but I’m having a blast.”

AbbyNew York City, NY

“I decided to get serious about meeting a man and having a relationship and so I hired Ronnie. After just four weeks of private coaching sessions with her, I met a wonderful fellow on Match. We’re now dating him exclusively! Ronnie’s coaching and advice are priceless. She’s helping me maneuver through the phases of relationship now and really knows her stuff. I’m indebted to her for not only meeting a great guy, but for understanding me and correcting the mistakes I made in past relationships. She is a gem of a dating coach!”