Category Archives: Relationships

Am I Addicted to Love? I Need Your Dating Advice

September 5th, 2016 / Leave a Comment

Are you addicted to love if you’re in an “on and off” relationship for 20 years? Sounds like it to me. Here’s my advice to this woman who questions if her relationship is real or a sickness. Is She Addicted to Love? “Dear Dating Coach Ronnie, Is this a relationship or sickness? I believe the…

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Sadly, Your Virtual Relationship Is Not True Love

July 16th, 2015 / Leave a Comment

Have you been caught up in a virtual relationship that leaves you frustrated and wanting more? Check out my dating advice that explains why this will never become true love. How to Know When Your Virtual Relationship Is a Dead End “Hi Ronnie, I met a guy in college and we really started getting along…

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Happy Halloween: Are You Afraid of Picking the Wrong Man Again?

October 29th, 2013 / Leave a Comment

Picking the wrong man again – Is that your fear this Halloween?  Maybe you are divorced or have ended a long-term relationship. If you’ve had more than one love that ended badly, you might have developed a fear about choosing the right man again. Some women tell me how they fear having a broken picker…

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Understanding Men: Dinner Date Feng Shui for Independent Women

October 24th, 2013 / Leave a Comment

Need help understanding men as an independent, successful woman? Try Dinner Date Feng Shui! This may seem surprising, but as a strong, independent woman, you have likely adopted some masculine traits unknowingly. The reasons are simple: Today women are self-sufficient, movers and shakers with successful careers. You know how to take charge, make things happen,…

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Understanding Men: 7 Signs You Are in a Virtual Vs. Real Relationship

October 21st, 2013 / 7 comments

Need help understanding men? Women ask me about their relationships and I have to break it to them they are not in a real relationship but a virtual one. Keep reading to find out why. Does this situation sound familiar? You connected with a guy online, shared numbers and are now texting. Maybe he texts…

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Dating Coaching: How Do I Know When It’s Time to Move On?

August 27th, 2013 / Leave a Comment

  Dating Coaching provides access to expert and unbiased advice. Dating can be an emotional roller coaster and straight talk from a dating coach like me will save you tons of time and heartache. Read on to see if you can relate to this reader’s situation. Hey Ronnie, I need an unbiased opinion that I…

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Relationship Advice: He’s My Soul Mate, But Our Relationship Is Secret

August 22nd, 2013 / Leave a Comment

This relationship advice is for any woman who doesn’t know where she stands with her man. Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach, I’ve known this guy for almost three years. We’ve been friends, but have started to talk and date since he’s gotten divorce. We also work together so though I see him daily and have…

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Hooking Up and Hanging Out – Dead End Relationships that Derail Love

August 13th, 2013 / 2 comments

Hooking up doesn’t usually end with love For many people, connecting casually has become the new normal. A guyyou met online texts to say he’s out with friends and asks you to join him. This isn’t an official first date, but offers a low risk way to meet. From my perspective as a dating coach,…

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Friends with Benefits Doesn’t Benefit You

August 9th, 2013 / Leave a Comment

Are you in a friends with benefits relationship?Read on to learn what to do. Dear Ronnie, The Dating Coach for Women, I need dating advice badly. My ex of 2 years ago started hanging out with me again. At first we were both in relationships and just walked at the same park for 8 months…

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The Future of Love Looks Bleak

July 11th, 2013 / Leave a Comment

I know, I know you might think this is a headline you’d expect to see in the NY Post. Am I being too dramatic or over the top with this idea that the future of LOVE could ever be in jeopardy? Well, I’m totally serious about this projection into the future. All kidding aside, I…

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Dating After 40: Do You Respect Men as Equals or Feel Superior?

June 1st, 2013 / 6 comments

Are you dating after 40 and struggling with managing your masculine/feminine energy? Back in 2009, I wrote a post about emasculating the male ego with a personal story about my husband. The short version is that we went to Home Depot to buy a water filter. Being a chick-in-charge, I did my usual – walked…

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Understand Men: More Red Flags that You’re Dating the Wrong Guy

March 22nd, 2013 / 1 comment

If you want to understand men better… you need to be aware of red flags that let you know you are dating the wrong man. This is a continuation of my last post about how to understand men so click the link to read the first three red flags. Here are the next four. 4.…

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Understand Men: 7 Red Flags He’s Not the Right Man for You

March 20th, 2013 / 1 comment

How to Understand Men and Know You’re in the Right Relationship Sometimes you know right away that you and your man are a great match. It’s just magical and all aspects of how you interact with him feel great. But things don’t always happen like they do in the storybooks. There are other times when…

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Understand Men: Believe Him When He Says It’s Not the Right Time

February 13th, 2013 / 30 comments

This question comes up so often with my dating coaching clients. How do you know when to believe what a man says to you, and when to disregard the words and look for more accurate signals of truth in his behavior? I’ll explain a simple way to better understand this situation and understand men. Please…

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Dating and Divorce: Courtesy and Respect Are Relationship Basics

October 11th, 2012 / Leave a Comment

I get a lot of questions about dating and divorce. I know its not easy out there. This email from a divorced woman in her 40’s sounds like many of the emails I receive. If you are dating and divorced, I hope this helps you draw the line with men who don’t know how to…

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I Want to Spend More Time Together, But He’s Too Busy to See Me

March 30th, 2012 / Leave a Comment

Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, “I’m in my late 40s and have been dating Norman for two years. He’s been married before as I have and we both have grown up families who live in our respective towns. Norman has been single for a long time, and although he’s lived with a few women…

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Dating Red Flags and Phone Relationships: Should I Take it to the Next Level?

March 26th, 2012 / Leave a Comment

Dear Ronnie, “I am  43, never been married and am currently talking to a guy (long distance) that I’ve known for about 3 years now. We met in grad school in 2008 and did not reconnect until March 2009 via phone. We’ve been talking ever since. He is now divorced and told me that he has…

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Can You Still Love Him When the Flowers Suck?

February 15th, 2012 / 2 comments

Let the Little Things Go to Stay Happy in Your Relationship Even though I’m The Dating Coach, I’m very human in a very human relationship. My husband is adorable, makes me laugh, and is highly supportive. But this Valentine’s Day, all I wanted was the two bunches of colorful tulips like I get every year.…

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Can Long Distance Relationships Really Work Out?

January 3rd, 2012 / Leave a Comment

Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach I believe I will be forever single. I was in a 10-year bad relationship which is not over. I have dated on and off for several years, but never intentionally looking for a life partner. Just recently, on vacation to Jamaica, I met this man and we fell in…

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Can I Rekindle the Spark and Connection We Had at the Start?

October 27th, 2011 / Leave a Comment

Dear Ronnie the Dating Coach for Women, I am 40, and newly single. I’ve been seeing a man for about a month and I broke all your rules, but he is still calling me. At least for now. Things have definitely been cooling off. When we met, it was all electricity and we both felt…

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