Dating Over 40: I Want a Man with Style and Money, But I’m Good as Is

My dating coaching client, Susan, is 43 with a few extra lbs. and a very casual style of dressing. Nothing wrong with that. She knows who she is and likes to be comfortable.  As her dating coach, I did ask her to be her best comfortable self while trying to attract a new relationship. She … Read more

Midlife Dating: Today is the 1st Day of the Rest of Your Life

I awoke to the church bells ringing as I do every Sunday morning. The neighborhood church plays a beautiful bell-song at 8am. so what’s the news here? We’re still here, still alive, still going. According a particular Christian group, not sure who it is, they found a prediction in the New Testament that the final … Read more

Do You Lose Ground If You Don’t Have a Date Every Saturday Night?

My friend and colleague Terry Hernon MacDonald is a big proponent of the Law of Attraction (LOA) to attract the love you want. She wrote a great article recently that really digs deep into the details of how to use LOA. I thought it was fabulous so I am sharing it with you. I also … Read more

The Royal Wedding – Leverage the Global Love Bubble to Attract Your Own Love

    The Royal Wedding is today! At 6am edt, coverage begins of the British fairytale marriage of Prince William and Catherine Middleton. Will you be watching? Even a little bit of the pomp and ceremony? This might surprise you, but I recommend watching some fo the coverage. As your dating coach, I have very … Read more

Earth Day 2011 – Celebrate the Goddess

Today is Earth Day. Did you do anything yet to commemorate the day? This “green-focused” holiday celebrates the earth and is designed to raise consciousness about how we treat our “Mother.” I took part in a special ceremony to honor the Goddess, our Earth Mother. We honored her with offerings of cornmeal and water, took … Read more

Dating Over 40: Fall in Love on Valentine’s Day…With Yourself by Bobbi Palmer

This is Day 2 of the Valentine’s Day Blog-a-thon, running February 10th – 16th. My second guest blogger is Bobbi Palmer,  The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women Over 40. She is not just a dating coach; she is a dating success story! She was married for the first time at 47, and enjoys a … Read more

Valentine’s Day Over 40: Love is in the Air, and It’s All About You by Marla Martenson

Welcome to the first day of the 2nd Annual Valentine”s Week Blog-a-thon!  Seven dating experts and guest bloggers from around the US will share their wisdom this week to celebrate Cupid’s holiday.  Every day this week, I’ll post a new article by a different dating blogger with her own, unique take on love, dating and celebrating Valentine’s Day. … Read more

Dating Over 40: Why He Turned Down a Threesome

Do you think all men are dogs? Terry MacDonald, blogger at explains why that’s not a great belief system. According to the Law of Attraction, what you think of as truth and choose to focus on is what you attract. Therefore , if you do believe all men are dogs – guess who you’ll likely meet? … Read more

Dating Over 40: Money Can’t Buy Love or a US Senate Seat

In Connecticut, Linda McMahon, CEO of the World Wrestling Federation ran a heated race with Richard Blumenthal for the US Senate seat. An extremely wealthy woman, she invested $50 million of her own cash – wow that’s a lot of dough! But, when you want something, you have to invest right? You have to chase your … Read more

Dating Over 40: Is Your Ambivalence about Love Holding You Back?

So you are over 40, divorced or single and say you want to find a good life partner? Great! What are you doing to make that desire come true? As a dating coach for women dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I’ve seen and heard so much – I’m sure you can imagine. But … Read more

Dating Over 40: Are You Irritated with Men?

Beth, one of my over 40 dating coaching clients is feeling  down about her dating journey. Things aren’t happening the way she’d like and frankly, so many men who contact her on are simply irritating. I asked what she meant. “Well’, they wink, but don’t write. Or email but clearly haven’t read my profile. Or … Read more

Dating Over 40: Do You Find Dating as Annoying as Mosquito Bites?

Some of my dating coaching clients think dating is totally annoying. They don”t like: -the process -the men they meet -the Internet -the dances -to play games -wasting time meeting people Do you feel this way too? Can you related to this? If you said “Yes,” I’m not  surprised. I hear these feelings expressed all … Read more

Dating Over 40: How to Trust the Universe to Deliver Love

Yesterday was a tough one. I had a very big business disappointment in which an exciting partnership dissolved. We were going along smoothly, and then suddenly it was over. Just like that. Just like the way it can be when dating a man. As a professional dating coach, I constantly see parallels between dating situations … Read more

Dating Over 40: Create an Affirmation to Leverage the Law of Attraction

Have you created an affirmation about love yet? Working with me as your dating coach, That’s one of the first things we do. It’s easy really. Here’s how you can do it to start attracting the love you want today. 1. Think about the qualities you want in your romantic partner. Is he happy, successful, … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Law of Attraction – Why You MUST Say Affirmations Out Loud?

This weekend I ran a workshop using the Law of Attraction to attract love. A lot of material was covered on how to create a powerful, customized affirmation for each class participant. After we completed the process, one woman asked me, “Do I have to say my affirmation out loud? What if I don’t’ feel … Read more

Dating Over 40: What to Do When You Can’t Help Yourself

So you say you can’t help yourself? You can read one commentor’s thoughts here on how she can’t help but be attracted to married men.. But as an over 40 dating coach and coaching those dating after divorce, here are other similar statements I’ve heard: – You can’t stop thinking about your ex – You … Read more

Do You Feel Passed Over by Love? 5 Powerful Methods to Attract Love – Part 1

Tonight is the first night of the Jewish holiday called Passover. It’s the story of the Jews being slaves in Egypt, and how Moses asked the Pharaoh to “Let my people go.” But the Pharaoh didn’t want to release his work force, so God sent 10 plagues, the last one being the taking of the … Read more