If you are single this holiday season, this post is for you! I have a special gift to share with you so read on. Hanukkah starts tonight! This Jewish holiday, also referred to as the Festival of Lights, features the menorah with nine candles. One candle for each day and a ninth to light the others. … Read more
For first dates, do you get extremely excited about meeting a guy who seems just perfect? You might think that it’s only natural to feel excitement for meeting a man who seems “good on paper”. You might buy a new outfit, pamper yourself, get your hair and nails done, etc. But is this really such … Read more
Find Love on Sadie Hawkins Day – A History Lesson Back on November 15, 1937 the comic strip Li’l Abner announced Sadie Hawkins Day. In this newspaper cartoon, Sadie’s father was worried his daughter wouldn’t find a husband, so the town held a race and any man Sadie caught had to agree to marry her. … Read more
Interested in meeting men to date and getting second dates? These are two areas single women struggle with on a regular basis. I’ve got simple solutions so read on! “Dear Ronnie, My question is about meeting men to date. I’ve been divorced fifteen years and only had two dating relationships in all that time, each … Read more
Do you wonder “How can I find love?” Then, vacillate between the terror of dating and staying single for the rest of your life. If you are like many of my dating coaching clients (women over 40, 50 and 60), the idea of growing old alone is not so appealing. On the other hand, the … Read more
Waiting to Find a Man is Not a Strategy to Bring Love into Your Life Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach, I am a 53 year single female, rather attractive and outgoing. I would love a date. I have not been on a date or even met anyone since 2010. I was a relationship with a … Read more
Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, My husband died two years ago and I still miss him every day. But, I’m starting to want male companionship again and feel ready to date. I’m 78 and want to share my life again with someone special. Last week I went out with a nice man. We had … Read more
As a dating coach for women over 40, I believe in having fun! But, I also believe in using your head and applying sound strategies to your dating activities. That’s what will help you get the best results – finding the right man for you for a lasting loving relationship. so please understand I am … Read more
Do you have a list of dating deal breakers? These are things about a man that you won’t tolerate. I hope you do, but if not, it’s time to make one up. This isn’t a list of the 40 irritating things guys have done in your past. These are the narrow few, completely intolerable behaviors … Read more
Back in April, I spoke at a holistic expo in Portland, OR. My friend Lisa, recorded my program so that anyone can listen to these proven yet simple strategies to find the love you want. Let me give you a sneak peak here so you can get an idea of what some of those powerful … Read more
Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach, I am a 58 year old widow whose husband died 4-1/2 years ago. I feel that I am finally through the tunnel of grief and am ready to date and find a relationship with a man…only to discover there are no men. They have ED or they are not interested in … Read more
Have you ever watched any of the Real Housewives series on BRAVO? It’s a misnomer in countless ways, since many of the women aren’t housewives. This is a “reality” show in the true Bravo tradition, chock-full of drama between rich women in several cities. What has this got to d0 with dating? Recently on the … Read more
So April 15th is on the horizon -it’s tax day! Are you filing single again? I hope you take a moment to think not about your taxes, but your relationship status. It’s time you start making a serious effort to meet new people. Here are some ideas that will help! First let’s start with ATTITUDE. Oh … Read more
I bet you ‘ve been to a singles dance or two and thought it was just horrible. When I was dating, I go every six months. It was always a drama scene. First I had to pick out the right outfit, I’d try everything on in my closet, finally settle on something, but already felt … Read more
So it’s the last day of June and everyone is finally done with school for the year. Now let the fun begin! That means mom’s too! What will you do on your “summer vacation”? What new things will you try? What new places will you visit? Who will you meet? Try this exercise right now” … Read more
I met a friend for lunch yesterday who was encouraging me to offer a support group for recently divorced women who want to find love again, but might not be ready to get out there quite yet. At first I questioned her about what I could cover in a group like this. As we talked, … Read more
Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach, I hear about so many women complaining that they have a great job, a beautiful home, etc., but they still can not meet a good man. Well that’s very troubling to me because I don’t even have those things going for me. I have lots of financial debt. I know … Read more
Dear Over 40 Dating Coach, I need to start getting out there again. I am divorced, 54 and have been unemployed for 18 months. I haven’t spent much time looking to date since I’ve been focusing on the job hunt. But I’m ready to start doing something. What would be a good first outing? Thanks, Ready … Read more
Talking to Sharon about her search for love, she stated boldly that her dating action plan solely focused on web dating. As a new over 40 dating coaching client, Sharon is in the beginning stages of meeting men. While I think it’s great to have a plan and feel committed to it, I am also … Read more
If you have just recently come through a divorce, or are in the process, you may be starting to think about dating. As a dating coach for women over 40, I meet a lot of people in this situation. Many women are concerned about being vulnerable again. Some are afraid all the men will be … Read more