Dating Advice: Bring Your College Coed Flirty Self Back to the Future!

Need some solid midlife dating advice? Recapture your flirty college coed self to have more fun dating today. It’s back to school season and the kids are going back to college. Don’t you wish you knew then what you know now about so many things? I do. While I was reminiscing, I started thinking about … Read more

How to Meet Men: 3 Simple Ways to Capture His Attention

Women ask me all the time – How can I meet men? Whether single or dating after divorce, they groan and seem anxious and tell me they don’t know how to even get started! I’ve been right there with you, in those shoes of a single woman not knowing where to find a decent man. … Read more

Dating After 40: Do You Respect Men as Equals or Feel Superior?

Are you dating after 40 and struggling with managing your masculine/feminine energy? Back in 2009, I wrote a post about emasculating the male ego with a personal story about my husband. The short version is that we went to Home Depot to buy a water filter. Being a chick-in-charge, I did my usual – walked … Read more

Understand Men: He Talks About Dating But Doesn’t Ask Me Out

Last week I answered a question from a woman who called herself “Confused in Colorado”. Her question was about a guy named Jake who seemed interested and gave her his number, but never asked her out. They texted a lot and he “talked” about going out, but never did ask her. When she asked him … Read more

Feminine Charm: Are Men Intimidated by My Independence and Success?

Your Feminine Charm is the Key to Attracting Men I saw this post on the blog of Matchmaker and Dating Coach April Beyer and thought it was well worth sharing with my readers. April gave me permission to repost it  below! In her post, April talks about if your independence and success intimidates men – … Read more

Feminine Charm: 2 Alpha Females Fall Flat on Millionaire Matchmaker

Leverage Your Feminine Charm I’m a fan of the Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo TV and last night’s episode was great  to blog about! First, I love Dr. Pat Allen who tried to help Angela and Shonda with how to balance their own alpha tendencies in the presence of an alpha man. What they cut out … Read more

Dating: 5 Tips for a Great First Phone Call

Dating: Will Your Phone Style Help You Get a First Date or Push It Away? Many of my dating coaching clients have questions about what to ask during the first phone call. They want to know how to quickly weed men out. Understandably, most busy midlife women say they don’t have time to waste on … Read more

Dating After 40: Tips for Speed Dating

Hello Ronnie, I could use some tips for speed dating. I’m 45, divorced, and attending my first speed dating evening next week. Other than the obvious (be open, friendly, charming, smile, dress femininely, etc.) do you have any specific advice on how I can make myself stand out from what I assume will be a … Read more

Flirting Tips: It’s So Easy to Strike up a Flirty Conversation

The Best Verbal Flirting Tips Today, I’ll reveal my secrets for flirty conversation. This is so simple any woman can pull it off with success the first time you try it. Yesterday I shared my body language flirting tips and you can read that here if you like. Verbal Flirting Is Not Rocket Science Just … Read more

Flirting Tips: How to Attract More Men with Flirty Body Language

You are about to find out the most powerful, yet simple flirting tips for women that work like a charm every time. Find out how it can work for you! Do You Know How to Flirt? According to Mama Gena (from the School of Womanly Arts in NYC) flirting is a fun, playful spontaneous way … Read more

At 65, What Do I Wear on a First Dinner Date?

Dress Your Feminine Best for a First Dinner Date at Any Age Hi Ronnie The Dating Coach, I have a very important question. I am 65, a widow and just starting to date. I recently met a man through J-date and we played bridge together one afternoon. It was a delightful and I really liked … Read more

How Many Single Men Have You Met This Summer?

Do you know the simplest way to meet more single men? I’m going to share my #1 strategy that is a proven way to meet guys. Not only that, it’s free, it’s available to you almost any where you live and you can start right now. I started a new teleclass program on May 21st … Read more

Dating Over 40: Do You Have Invisible Woman Syndrome?

Do You Feel Like an Invisible Woman? Sometimes when I talk to my dating coaching clients I discover how they feel about flirting. “It’s just wrong” Beverly told me with conviction. Really Beverly? Why is that? Turns out Bev was brought up to never stand out. Under the “Children are better seen than heard” parenting … Read more

What Attracts a Man to a Woman? Feminine Charm!

Have you ever read The Dating Goddess’s blog? She writes fabulous posts about being over 40 and single. In a recent post, she had a conversation with a guy friend who’d like to date her,. He explained the attraction she has, “You have this tough, businesslike, ‘don’t mess with me’ exterior. But inside, you’re soft … Read more

Reading Body Language: Do You Know What Your Body’s Saying?

He’s Reading Your Body Language, So Tell Him a Friendly Story about Yourself Whether you know it or not, your body is sending signals before you utter a word. If you are single, working on your body language is a good use of your time, especially for women. Why? Because when you flirt, you are … Read more

Do I Have to Appear Needy to Attract a Man?

Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach for Women Over 40, I’m 52 years old and I look rather young for my years.  I haven’t had a date since my divorce 4 1/2 years ago.  No so much as a phone call.  I have tried Match.com and e-harmony with no luck.   I still haven’t found one … Read more

For Career Woman, What Mindset Works Best to Meet More Men

Are you a successful career woman? Do you have a high-paying powerful job? Are you a chick in charge? Do you have an independent streak that runs deep? If you answered “Yes” to any of the above four questions, congratulations on your success in life and business! That is great to have competed with men, … Read more

Dating Over 40: When Was the Last Time a Man Tried to Pick You Up?

For me, it was yesterday! I am constantly amazed how I am living proof that you don’t need to be tall (I’m shy of 5 feet), thin (definitely not) or young  (I’ve stopped counting) to have men flirt with you, try to pick you up or tell you that you’re beautiful. There I was, walking from where I … Read more

Do You Want Sex or Love? Dating After Divorce

I had the most interesting conversation last week with a woman who knows the men like the back of her hand. I was very impressed by her viewpoints, in-depth knowledge and the savvy advice she shares with her friends. Phoebe, a strong, independent, presentable 45 year old woman, single by conscious choice,  told me a few juicy … Read more

Dating Over 40: Why the Flirts Have It!

Do you flirt? What do you think of women who flirt? Do you have an attitude about women who use their feminine charm to gain male attention? I hope you said “No”, because flirting is essential to meeting good men today. Oh yes, it’s true. Flirting is a fun and playful way to interact with men. … Read more