Dating Over 40: Could the Biggest Obstacle to Finding Love Be You?

Yesterday was very unusual because I ran not one but two workshops! One was a private home party in the morning. The other was the last of the series in the Spring 100 Day Challenge. What struck me after doing two workshops in one day was the high level of resistance in some of the participants. … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Is “Good Editor” One of Your Must Have Qualities for a Romantic Partner?

One of my clients was complaining about online profiles, emails and why she just isn’t interested in a man who can’t spell or confuses words. She can almost forgive the typos, but using too instead of to sends her over the edge. Sandra insists that this is a measure of intelligence and she needs to … Read more

Over 40 Dating: Do You Get Prematurely Attached? Get Real about Your Expectations

Saturday, I ran my Flirt School dating Workshop for Women in CT. It was a wonderful morning filled with questions and answers, flirting lessons, dating tips and advice, and powerful insights on how to tap into your feminine allure and increase your desirability. One story that touched my heart came from a woman who just … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Questions about Dating a Dad

  Dear Dating Coach, I am dating a single dad for two months now. I met him when we used to work together two years ago. At that time he lived with his son’s mother, but now they broke up. I do like him, but I’m not 100% sure if i can handle being in a serious relationship … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Should I Evaluate My Date During the Date?

 photo by billogs Melissa asked me during our dating coaching session today, “Should I evaluate my date while I am still on the date?” Good question! For some guys, she knows right away if she wants or doesn’t want to see them again. But for the men she feels uncertain about – it can get … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Why Did He Contact Me on Facebook?

This is another one of those Facebook stories which are becoming more common these days. The truth is Facebook is just a communication tool and not a direct method to find love. If a man over 40 genuinely wants to connect with you, he has to take things to the next level beyond Facebook… “Dear Dating Coach, … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Are You an Angry Woman? How Your Outlook Changes Your Dating Luck.

Dating is a very emotionally charged undertaking.  No question about it.  The idea of rejection is foremost on your mind and you are primed and ready for disappointment. Perhaps you’ve had more than your share of dating frustration. Here’s the interesting thing – when I compare notes with other dating professionals, we discovered that some people are … Read more

Dating After Divorce: I’m Not Your Ex! – Insightful Dating Advice from a Single Midlife Man

Last week I interviewed a single guy, 46, who had some very interesting advice to share with single women.  Jerry has done his fair share of online dating on Match and special interest sites too.  Here’s what Jerry has to offer women who are in the process of searching for love and dating: 1. Don’t Judge … Read more

Dating After Divorce: Giving Up Negativity for Lent

My friend Linda Gottleib wrote an inspiring post on her blog about what she intends to give up for Lent. Negativity! Yes, Linda says she’s inviting something into her life which is more positive thinking. This is one brilliant woman. Read her post and feel inspired. Whether you are Catholic or not, this is … Read more