Find Love: 8 Love Lessons for Hanukkah – Free ebook

If you are single this holiday season, this post is for you! I have a special gift to share with you so read on. Hanukkah starts tonight!  This Jewish holiday, also referred to as the Festival of Lights, features the menorah with nine candles. One candle for each day and a ninth to light the others. … Read more

Find Love Again: Flirt Up a Storm During Hurricane Sandy

Hurricane Sandy Has Arrived So It’s Time to Flirt Up a Storm! If you live on the East Coast – then you know its absolutely crazy out there! The wind is blowing, the tides are abnormally high and everything is closed. Well, not EVERYTHING. The Internet is still open and running while we still have … Read more

Dating Over 40? Catch Olympic Fever to Meet Single Men!

As you know, right now the Olympics are hot. Everyone is buzzing about the games . It’s not only exciting, it’s a great opportunity for to meet single men! Don’t like sports? Come on now, this isn’t football. We’re talking about America’s darlings, the athletes that have been training for years for these few special … Read more

Are You Committed or Interested in Finding Love?

As a dating coach, I sometimes get coaching from other coaches. I learn a lot that way. And one thing I learned recently that made a big impression is from Fabienne Fredrickson. She pointed out what I can now see as a glaring truth. I hope you see it this way too. No matter how … Read more

New Interview: How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle with Online Dating

I just recorded a podcast interview with eHealth Radio about online dating. In it I share some of my choicest secrets about how to get the attention you want online. The way to have success with online dating is not as obvious as you would think. There are definitely tricks to it that can help … Read more

Why Is the Book “Fifty Shades of Grey” So Popular Among Women Right Now?

Have you heard about the new book Fifty Shades of Grey? Everyone seems to be talking about it. The book even made the cover of Newsweek magazine. It’s rocketed to the top of the NY Times Best Sellers List. Some people say its not well written at all. Others say it reads like a fraternity … Read more

April 24 – Parenting & Dating After Divorce – FREE Teleclass

  FREE TELECLASS Dating & Parenting After Divorce How to create successful outcomes for you and your kids! Moving on after divorce is always a challenge but more complex when you’re a parent. Rosalind Sedacca, CCT, Founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network for parents and creator of the Mastering Child-Centered Divorce 8-hour Audio Coaching Program … Read more

Dating Over 40: Have We Become the Men We Want to Marry?

Gloria Steinem’s Quote from the 70’s Might Be Coming True 40 Years Later This is a totally crazy question isn’t it? Does it even make sense? After all, how could we become the men we want to date and marry? Let’s take a look at this idea. Back in the 1970’s, Gloria Steinem said, “We’re … Read more

Atlantic Monthly: Are Women Forced to Choose Between Deadbeats and Players?

Atlantic Monthly Article is NOT the Final Word on Your Chance of Finding a Decent Man! In a recent article published in the Atlantic Monthly, there was a Bible-length article entitled All the Single Ladies on the plight of single women in America. I haven’t finished it yet because, frankly, I’ve got things to do. … Read more

Leap Year – It’s Sadie Hawkin’s Day. Will You Ask a Man Out?

  Happy Sadie Hawkins’ Day! Since ancient Rome was in power, an extra day has been added to February, giving the month it’s 29th day every four years. Due to the rarity of this day, many traditions have been created over time. Since the day is so unusual, it has prompted different cultures over the … Read more

Love is in the Air: Real Life Survival Guide with Bruce Barber

I had the pleasure of being on NPR recently with Bruce Barber. His show, The Real Life Survival Guide is like a cocktail party broadcast on the radio. We sat at a table in John Davenport’s restaurant at the top of New Haven’s Omni Hotel and shared an amazing meal (totally unexpected by me). Yummy … Read more

The Conventions of Love and War: Healing from a Breakup

Suggestions for Healing a Broken Heart Based on the Conventions of War Have you ever heard of Paul Coelho? He is the author of a book entitled The Alchemist which I adored. It’s a thought provoking book about how the fear of risking your heart is greater than the actual deed an has spiritual overtone. … Read more

The Naked Truth about Dating and Social Media

I read a great article by Stacy Kaiser from USA Today in which she offered very sound precautions about combining dating, love and social media. Stacy quoted some astonishing statistics from the 2012 Harlequin Romance Report and I want to share a portion of that with you here. Check this out: 57% of single women … Read more

New Scientific Study Exposes Online Dating Site Matching as Bogus!

Matching by Online Dating Sites Isn’t Scientific! I am so excited to share this with you! If you know me or have read my blog, you know how I feel about online dating sites that match you. It’s total hogwash And now I have science behind me! As reported by CBS News, new research has … Read more

Singles in American Survey Says Less than 13% of American Singles Are Looking for Love!

Discover the Silver Lining in the Match.com Sponsored Research Study According to the second annual Singles in America Survey conducted on behalf of Match.com, only 12.7% of singles today are actively looking for a relationship! Can you believe that? As a dating coach for women, I find this number shocking. And yet, maybe not when … Read more

Reading Body Language: Do You Know What Your Body’s Saying?

He’s Reading Your Body Language, So Tell Him a Friendly Story about Yourself Whether you know it or not, your body is sending signals before you utter a word. If you are single, working on your body language is a good use of your time, especially for women. Why? Because when you flirt, you are … Read more

Sex is Better for Older Women – Oh Yeah!

Getting older, truly means getting better. According to an article in today’s Chicago Sun Times, a study of 806, mostly post-menopausal women, uncovered some extremely exciting findings. Turns out that the majority of older women from the study, with an average age of 67 years, found that sexual satisfaction increases with age, even if desire … Read more

Marriage Trends in America are Down

As a dating coach, trends like this are big on my radar and this was a huge news story around December 14th. A new report completed by the  Pew Research Center announced that marriage trends are still declining in the United States, (as well as in Europe and other developed nations) as it has been … Read more

Rejection Email Goes Viral: Rule #1 – Never Write it Down!

Women often seek my dating advice on how to let a man know you’re not interested. This is tricky because you never really know who you are dealing with. Case in point – this article from the Huffington Post about an investment manager’s embarrassing email asking why he didn’t get  a second date. It seems … Read more