Advice for Singles on Valentine’s Day: Love Your Singledom

Welcome to Day 3 of the Valentine’s Day Blog-a-thon! 

Ready to a new approach with your online dating efforts? Here’s the online dating expert who can help you shake things up to get the results you want. 

eFlirt Expert
eFlirt Expert

Introducing today’s guest blogger, Laurie Davis, founder of eFlirt Expert and co-host of the weekly web show, LoveNation. She helps singles market themselves to become successful daters, is the current NY Tech Dating Examiner and a contributing writer for The Guyds.

There are a lot of things to love on Valentine’s Day and your singledom is one of them!  Yup, you read that right.  Loving your singledom on V Day is just as important as the requisite box of chocolates.    Make February 14th the day to refocus yourself and have fun dating online!  Below are eFlirt Expert  approved ways to empower yourself to step outside of your virtual dating box.

Join a New Dating Site.
  If you’re not dating online yet, you need to start.  Gone is the stigma, and the internet marrieds”  trend has begun.  For those of you who are dating on the web, try a new site.  You’ll tap in to a new population of matches.  You don’t have to spend a bundle either – join a free site like Okcupid , try’s  free three day trial or participate in eHarmony’s free communication weekend Feb 11-15

Let Go Of Expectations. 
Feeling jaded from past online dating experiences?  Start fresh by banishing negativity.  For every negative thought you have, commit to emailing one more match.  Re-think your “type”  and communicate with a wider range of matches.

Go To A Singles Event.  Speed dating events and singles mixers are perfect supplements for online dating.  Do a quick Google search for your city or join meetup   groups.  Choose events that focus on activities that interest you.

Revamp Your Profile.  Add new photos  and text to your profile.  A fresh take on what you’re looking for and your interests will give your profile a whole new look!  You might even catch the eye of a match who has previously overlooked you.  Still not getting the attention you want?  Get an eMakeover .

With a little effort towards your single-self, you’ll be happier than a Hallmark card could ever leave you!

Want more Blog-a-thon? Great! To read posts from the first two days, see links below and enjoy.

To read Day 1 by the Dating Goddess, midlife dating expert click here
To read Day 2 by Alyssa Johnson, relationships after divorce expert click here

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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