My Love Story

Getting Married over 40

I woke up on a cold January morning, which happened to be my 40th birthday to the realization that I was still single and might be that way for the rest of my life. I thought I should probably get used to that idea, since being single was what seemed most likely. Why fight the obvious and inevitable?

By May, I was singing a different tune. I was in a total uproar, and decided that there was no way in hell I was going to remain single if there was a breath left in my body. I summoned up all of my determination and promised myself to do everything in my power to change my relationship status.

I set out to discover what had kept me single – so I could change that first. I realized that I had not been open to men or a real relationship since my college boyfriend had broken my heart 18 years earlier!

How Ronnie Opened to Love

At first I focused on opening my heart to love, peeling away the “armor” that kept me guarded and safe, and feeling more attractive. I harnessed every mindset and spiritual tool I could find including Feng Shui, affirmations, chanting, prayer, talking to my spirit guides, energetic healing and more.

My initial focus was on raising my love vibration. Next, I told everyone what I was up to and before I knew it, I went out on the first blind date that started the ball rolling. In only 15 months, I dated 30 men, ending with meeting my husband, Paul. I’m happily married for several years now and so glad I took the journey to find love.

I successfully crammed 20 years of dating into a highly compressed time frame, which sometimes made the learning harsh, but always useful. And I learned extremely quickly from my mistakes!

While I had steady boyfriends in high school and college, I did very little dating during my youth. Most of my 20’s and 30’s were spent climbing the corporate ladder and enjoying the company of wonderful single girlfriends. In other words, I had to start from scratch to establish my dating IQ.

Now I Share My Experience with Clients

Looking back on this journey, it still amazes me. Today, I can see another outcome from this “labor of love.” I share my success, what worked for me, and the wisdom I gathered along the way with other successful single women who aren’t sure where to start or are frustrated with their results.

I am thrilled to coach people as they discover what holds them back, dissolve obstacles, and get out there to meet fabulous mates.

If you are reading this and wondering if Dating Coaching is for you, let me say the answer is YES! If you feel inspired, ready to shake things up, do something different, and incredibly determined to find the right man, then contact me to start the journey.

The right man for you is out there. If you are reading this, please know that LOVE IS YOUR DESTINY. Don’t let another day go by. Take the first step today by calling me now at 203-877-3777 or apply for a session online. I can’t encourage you enough to get out there and make your dream of love a reality. You deserve it!


Ronnie’s Bio

International Love & Dating Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC has helped smart, successful, single women who have hot careers, but a chilly love life find love for over 18 years. She came to this work through her own quest for love, dating, 30 men in 15 months to meet the man she’s been happily married to for years.

Ronnie is Certified Coach, a Reiki Master, and Intuitive Healer who is known for getting to the heart of the matter quickly to help clients move past blocks, love yourself, and attract love with a quality man.

The author of six books, her Amazon Bestseller Is He the One? Find Mr. Right by Spotting Mr. Wrong, sold more than 17,000 copies. You can find all her books and audios on her Amazon Author Page.

Ronnie has been featured by BBC’s 5 Live Radio, Sally Jesse Raphael, NBC News, Fox News, and ABC’s Chronicle in Boston, NPR, Fox News Online Magazine, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine as well as many other newspaper, magazine and web articles in the US, UK and Australia. She also performed a pre-show for the play “Bad Dates” at the Long Wharf Theatre in Connecticut.

Prior to Her Love Coaching Career

Ms. Ryan, MBA, CCC, is also a professional writer, speaker and workshop leader. She has worked in Marketing as a consultant and writer for 25+ years with Fortune 500 companies, agencies, small businesses, and individuals to develop strategies, implement programs and write their copy.

Ms. Ryan holds an MBA from Northeastern University, a BA from the University of Connecticut , was certified as a Coach (CCC) by Comprehensive Coaching University, and earned her coaching certificate from Coaches Training Institute. She spent seven years in marketing at General Foods (Kraft Foods) and also worked as a marketing consultant for companies including:

Chase Bank
Dannon Yogurt
Kraft Foods
Payless Shoes
Pepperidge Farm
The Perrier Group



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