Dating Over 40: 8 Love Lessons for Hanukah – Lesson #7

This is the seventh day of the 8 Love Lessons for Hanukah. The series leverages the miraculous energy of the Festival of Lights to shed light on your love life, with eight simple lessons to attract love .You’ll find one more love lesson tomorrow for a total of eight days so stop by to discover the eight gift!
Love Lesson #7 —  Enhance Your Feminine Allure
We women have a lot going for us. And the one thing we really have in our favor is that we are WOMEN. Straight men are attracted to women. So even though you may be equal to a man, you are not a man, right? You are the opposite sex, and as such, it’s time to leverage that biological fact!
Along those lines, are you connected to your feminine allure? This is your birth right and something every single woman has access to. Whether your femininity is obvious or is buried deep in your core, your allure cannot be denied.
For some, you may need to re-awaken this dormant aspect of your personality. And I highly recommend investigating some of these methods for yourself because when your allure in working, you’re far more attractive and almost magnetic. That makes dating a lot easier as you can imagine.
So how do you get in touch with your allure? Here are a few easy techniques to try. Sample a few methods to find the ones that feel best to you.
1) Assess Your Wardrobe
Do you have anything sexy hanging in your closet? A lot of women have work clothes and casual clothes. But neither of those will work for dating. Do you need an excuse to go shopping? If so this is it! Buy something that makes you feel fabulous. Something pretty – maybe a skirt, a sweater with an open neckline, or strappy shoes with a nice heel.
2) Pamper Yourself
When you take care of yourself, you honor yourself which is very good for self-esteem and self-image. Get a facial, cover those stray grey hairs, get a manicure and a pedicure, try a makeup consultation. You deserve to be pampered and care for. If you want to be spoiled, start by spoiling yourself. A well cared for woman looks radiant. Her body language sends messages of confidence and allure which are very attractive.
3) What’s in Your Underwear Drawer?
Almost everyone has those comfy, cotton favorites in their underwear drawer. But do you have any sexy lingerie as well? I’m not talking about thongs so don’t get your panties in a bunch. I’m talking about pretty colors, lace, or matching sets. When I teach workshops, I ask the participants who that lingerie is for. I’ve gotten answers like – "Just in case you get lucky." But the truth is – it’s for you!
When you put on a lacey bra and panties, you feel sexy and are more in touch with your natural allure. An automatic response kicks in. No one else has to know what you are wearing underneath – it’s your little secret that makes you feel the power of your feminine charm. Unleash your allure and watch what happens!
You can read more about rekindling your feminine charm in Chapter 8 of MANifesting Mr. Right.
Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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