Remember that fun Christmas song “A Partridge in a Pair Tree”? It has gifts that you sing about – one for each of the 12 days of Christmas. The fifth day features “5 golden rings”. As a single woman, when you hear this, your thoughts might drift off to something like…Five? All I need is one!
It’s true, one golden ring is what many single women seek. For some, you have not found the right man yet and haven’t gotten to the altar. For others, you’ve been to the altar and back, having gotten divorced. Yet, you might want to marry again. And why not, if that is your heart’s desire?
So, this ring you dream of, how are you going to get it? You can’t grab it on the carousel – that’s a brass ring. You won’t likely find what you want in a box of Crackerjacks either. You can buy one for yourself, but the sentiment won’t be there. It’s not one of the gold rings from the Olympics.
The ring you want is a symbol, not just a piece of gold jewelry. It’s a symbol of commitment and love.
If you have a deep desire to find love, as your dating coach I entreat you! Do something about it!
Now you may say to me, Ronnie, I’ve done a lot to meet the right man, but still haven’t found him. OK, I hear you. It happens. These things can take time. If you’ve been dating for a while without getting the results you want, here’s a clue about what to do next…
Try something different.
You see, if you want your result to be different, you have to DO something different. You can’t keep following the same footsteps, attending the same dances, going to the same bars, or whatever you are doing and expect that something miraculous will happen. Uh uh. Nope, that’s not how things work.
Here are some suggestions to get you out of your dating rut:
- Conduct a self-assessment to see if you might be in your own way.
– Are you friendly enough?
– Are you too picky?
– Are you quick to judge?
– Do you have a type?
– Are you fun and easy to be with?
– Do you complain a lot about dating to the men you meet?
- Is your confidence where it should be? What can you do to bolster your self-esteem?
- You have to follow a new path with some new avenues to meet men.
– Look up some Meetup groups
– Talk to other singles to find out what they do and where they go
– Get over your fear of online dating and give it a shot.
Are ready to give online dating a chance?
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