Are You Making These 3 Online Dating Mistakes?


online dating, date online, online dating advice, meet men, dating coaching for womenThree online dating mistakes most women make

When dating coaching clients come to me, they often start by complaining about online dating. Until we peel back the layers to see what they are doing wrong, they feel frustrated with the men who email them. This can happen for a number of reasons:

  1. They don’t like the men who email
  2. They don’t get enough men emailing them
  3. They wait for men to email them

There are probably more, but those are the top three problems women share with me.

Now you might think the only way to get a man to email you is to email him first. Not true! That is one way of course but I’m going to share how to email men to get a better response rate.

See, most women think the way to use online dating to meet men is so obvious. Trouble is, that’s not really true. There are a number of easy tricks to the process that can make things go so much more smoothly for you when you know what they are.

Those are the things I want to share! I want online dating to be easy, fun and highly productive so you can meet men and find love.

You might have figured some things out on your own already. But I’m going to share three secrets about how to get men to email you. This is just the tip of the iceberg on the great tips you’ll get from this program.

1. Browse men’s profiles.
As you know, you get messages from the site about who has viewed your profile. This is like online flirting – you get to see who has been admiring you. Flirting behavior can perk up a man’s interest in you and might get him to email to learn more and connect.

 2. See a guy you like? Mark him as a “favorite”.
When a guy sees that you have favorited him, he gets naturally curious to know more and often will write to you. This is another online dating flirting trick to nudge a man into action about you.

3. Choose a few men to contact.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with emailing men. You don’t need to wait for men to contact you. This again is a lot like flirting at a cocktail party. You are just being friendly. This is not an aggressive step at all. But, keep it short and ask just one question to get him thinking about you.

Now you may have already tried these tips, especially writing to men and without much to show for it. Ahhh, but what did you say? Did you make these three fatal mistakes?

  1. Did you tell all about yourself?
  2. Did you tell him how much you have in common?
  3. Did you write a long email hoping to capture his attention?

All three of these mistakes will likely not get the guy to write to you! I know, online dating is not so obvious when it comes to what works. While it seems like those methods should work, often they simply don’t. And that’s what gets SO AGGRAVATING about online dating.

But, your frustration arises from the core problem:

Not really knowing how online dating works

 Now, that lack of knowledge can be a thing of the past! All you need to do is get a copy of my home study program, How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle Online  You’re efforts online will be so much more productive once you gain access to all the tips and tricks I share.

I’m am all about efficiency. I know you are busy. I know you just want to meet someone. I know you don’t have a lot of time to waste. So stop wasting time! Check out How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle Online for more tips to make finding love online a reality for you now.

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. She put her skills from personal development and her spiritual path to work, dating 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to manifesting and midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late to help smart, successful women find love or live an empowered and magical life. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC, is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000s of midlife women with her Love & Magical Life Coach services. She’s the host of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast and has been featured on NBC, ABC, & Fox News, NPR, BBC, eHarmony,, and Connecticut Magazine among others. Also, Ronnie is the author of 6 books which are available on Amazon.

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