Looking for dating tips for women? This post is part of a series that features interviews with dating experts who share their stories and success secrets with you. Please share this post with your single gal pals so everyone can learn, grow and find love.
Meet Suzanne Muller- Heinz
Suzanne is dating coach known for helping women become their most lovable self so they can attract the love they want. How does she do that? Her dating tips for women and method has three parts:
1) Loving and honoring yourself
2) Learning how to love someone else
3) Receiving love from a man
According to Suzanne, she has found that many women are good at one or two of these aspects, but surprisingly, most women are not good at loving and honoring themselves. As a result they lose themselves once in a relationship. Some women don’t stick up for themselves or hide their authentic, true self worried they won’t be loved if a man sees who they really are.
The first step to finding love when you work with Suzanne is to release leftovers from previous unhealthy relationships. Women hold onto emotions, regrets, resentment and things left unsaid that clog the body, mind and heart. This stuff literally jams up your energy.
These leftovers are why you have a hard time seeing love. A great man could walk right by and you won’t notice. Or sometimes women have trouble receiving love because they fear repeating old, painful patterns.
When you have vestiges of the past overloading your system it causes you shut down to love. The solution is to release these leftovers which enables you access to your full capacity to love. Through a series of simple exercises her clients empty harmful emotional leftovers. It’s like cleaning out the fridge, tossing out the old moldy cheese and rotting vegetables – like your decaying thoughts and feelings that keep you separated from love.
The second focus is that over time, especially over 40, experiences and attitudes build up about dating, love and men. So you want to clear all that out as well to be open and a clean slate.
One of Suzanne’s most powerful processes and dating tips for women is to create a new and bigger destiny. This establishes a new energy force around dating, love, healthy relationships and men. Everything about love gets funneled into a new context.
That’s how you can get past ideas such as “dating is exhausting, disappointing and lacking in any fun”. Then you will be able to embrace the new vision daily to feel how incredible things will be when it comes true. This process of transformation works to reprogram the brain.
Now when you go out to meet men and date you’ll be capable to see love, feel love and be loved.
How Did Suzanne Get Started Providing Dating Tips for Women?
Suzanne claims that she personally made every mistake under the sun, was engaged twice and serial dated for 8 years. Due to family stuff, she felt unwanted and unloved and didn’t love herself. She lacked the proper know how and skill set to love. The turning point for her was when the man she loved cheated on her – .that was rock bottom.
She felt strongly that the solution was to unlearn what she knew about love, dating and men and then become a student of love. This helped her discover how to be a lovable woman and honor herself. She also found out how men want to be loved.
In addition, Suzanne had to learn how to not be overly independent thinking, “I don’t need a man” which pushed love way. The bottom line was that she was really lonely. However, once clear about how she was sabotaging her efforts to find love, she was embraced her feminine side and opened to receive love.
All of these efforts ended up raising her vibration within herself, allowing her to naturally attract her true love. She met the man she married the first night of a week-long transformational workshop. He sat down right next to her and that was it! Now they’ve been happily married since 2014.