My online dating tips for women today are about the best dating sites. Which ones should you use to find the love you want?
I often recommend very few of these sites since experience tells me that the biggest sites are the best. And online dating tips for women over 40 are different than for younger gals in their 20s. My favorites are most likely what you’d expect.
- OurTime.com (for people over 50, but better over 60)
- Plenty of Fish – a free site
- OK Cupid -another free site
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If you are serious about finding love, online dating is the best tool to meet men fast, especially over 40 and 50. You want to find the biggest pools of single people and the top four sites are the most populated by far. You have probably noticed that I left one of the big players out from the list above – eHarmony.com. I’m not a fan of eHarmony for two reasons:
- The site asks too many questions and most men over 40 can’t be bothered with the details which means they have fewer men than other site. I know this is true from so many of my clients who get long-distance matches because the site has no local matches for them
- Their complicated communication process with too many predetermined questions rather than just getting to know each other
Sometimes in large cities this site can still be a good option. New York apparently has a good number of men using eHarmony. If your location is either more progressive or more religious (both sides of the coin) it’s possible that it’s worth giving the site a try. Just don’t get frustrated if it doesn’t work and throw the baby out with the bath water, thinking all online dating sites have no men.
I found this great review of online dating sites and they recommend OK Cupid as the #1 site which I find interesting. Then Match.com, PlentyofFish.com and last but not least, eHarmony.com.
They based their choice on the site that was most likely to help you find a compatible match. But they did acknowledge that things vary by geography, gender, are, etc. They looked at some of these factors to rank the sites:
- The widest geographical selection
- The most active user base
- Ease of creating a profile
- Accuracy of algorithms
- Quality of messages received
- Ease of use
Now this all sounds good, but keep in mind, they did all this research based on one 20 something single gal and her experiences. Still, it’s a fabulous review of how each site works and well worth the read. You’ll pick up some online dating tips for women and men to help you choose the best site for you.
They also point out how Match.com and eHarmony do produce the most marriages vs. the hookup culture of a site like OK Cupid. (This site has a bunch of questions about sexual preferences but you do not have to answer them and most people don’t!)
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The review also echoes my own gut reaction to eHarmony’s claims about their matching algorithm. I went through all the questions once with a client and does it really matter if I pick a baseball team I like or if I like cats and you do too. If you are allergic to cats, that’s one thing. But do not tell me long-term compatibility is based on a factor such as liking cats.
So, if you are thinking about online dating or are already participating and considering changing sites, this review of the sites will be extremely helpful!
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