Attract Men with Feminine Charm – Part 2

6 More Ways to Radiate Feminine Charm Like the Goddess You Are

What is the secret weapon you have at your disposal that will attract men like attract menmoths to the proverbial flame? Yes, it’s your feminine charm and the power of your allure. This post is part two of how to tap into your natural feminine side and put that to work to attract the right man.

If you find masculine, alpha males super appealing, then you need to know how to turn heads and get their attention. Your feminine allure is the answer, and it works like nothing else can.

The first four tips about feminine charm included appreciating beauty around you in daily life, making the most of your own looks, using all your sense to live a sensual life and taking time to smell the roses.

As a dating coach for women over 40, I see how many fabulous women have forgotten this aspect of themselves. A hot career is fulfilling no doubt, but it won’t capture a man’s attention for romance. Here are the next six tips so you have all 10 ways to radiate feminine charm and attract great men.

5. Pamper yourself to honor yourself.

As Mama Gena from the Mama Gena School of Womanly Arts says, “A pampered woman is a happy woman.” So take the time to take great care of yourself. This builds self-esteem as you honor your body and inner Goddess with massages, facials, mani-pedis, or a great new hairstyle. When you keep up your appearance and take care of your body, your inner Goddess shines through to be seen by those masculine men you desire. If you want to be spoiled, start by spoiling yourself.

6. Nourish your spirit.

You are not just a pretty face. To be desired as a whole woman, engage in activities that help you regenerate. Take yoga, learn about wine, walk through museums. Get involved in something you enjoy. Volunteer to help those who are less fortunate. Whatever helps you feel alive and happy will work to nourish your spirit and make you an interesting person with things to talk about.

7. See yourself as a sexy, appealing woman.

What is your vision of yourself? Do you see yourself as a sexy woman men notice? If not, follow the steps above to get there. This is absolutely ESSENTIAL if you want to turn heads and capture the heart of a masculine man. Walk with a sexy gate and move with slow assuredness. Behave like you are a great catch because – YOU ARE!

8. Value yourself and set boundaries.

When you know you are a great catch and you behave that way, you set clear boundaries for yourself and men. That means you expect men to plan ahead when they ask you out. Nothing wrong with spontaneity, but you might not be available for a last minute date. You also know you don’t need to answer inappropriate questions or be intimate before you are ready. When you set boundaries you let men know how you want to be treated – like a lady and the Goddess you are.

9. Be playful with men.

Your feminine charm allows you to be playful with men. You smile at them before turning away and flirt, knowing there’s no promise just because you shared your adorable grin. If a man asks you a question you rather not answer, you coyly say, “Wouldn’t you like to know?” You lighten up about men and your interactions because you know the right man is out there. If it’s not this guy, maybe the next will be “The One”. That sense of abundance helps you relax, be your best self and charm men like you never thought possible.

10. Be grateful for what is good in your life

You may not have everything you want in life, but you are incredibly grateful for everything that is right in your world. Your attitude of gratitude is practically contagious and a breath of fresh air for others. Science has proven that when you acknowledge all that is going well, you are happier and that of course makes you very appealing to the masculine man.

So there you have it – 10 ways to radiate feminine charm like a Goddess. If you start to using them in your life regularly, your feminine energy will pour forth to attract alpha men on a regular basis. You’ll no longer ask what “those women” do that is so different from you because you’ll be one of them. You already are, you just need to remember and allow her presence to emerge.

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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