Ever wonder if you should hire a dating coach?
People call me all the time asking about my services as a dating coach. Most callers know they want some help, but they are unsure about what I do exactly. many want to know where to find quality men – that is the most common question. So, in this post, I’m going to explain what I actually do for my clients and how that helps them find love faster.
1. Get Clear about What You Want and Don’t Want
I’m often surprised at how many women don’t really know what they want in a romantic partner. They know they’d prefer a man who is nice, generous and available, but beyond those three qualities, they aren’t sure. Yet, clarity regarding the qualities you want in a partner is very important. Without a clear idea of the kind of man you seek, how will you know you’ve found the best match?
On the other hand, women often work with me who have a long list of qualities, with the bar set so high, no man could satisfy. This is also a problem since you are likely to keep yourself single with extreme criteria. In the end, you need an idea of what will work and then the ability to be flexible to find the best match for you. This is one of the first areas I help my clients nail down so they can find love faster.
2. Eliminate Limiting Beliefs that Block Love
You might not even be aware of limiting beliefs that are getting in the way of finding love. Some women don’t realize how much disdain they have for men as an entire gender. How can you expect to attract a loving man when you simply don’t like men or appreciate them for what they bring to the world?
I understand how your life experiences have created these thoughts and that is why I work with my clients to turn these beliefs around. While some men might not be of the best character, there are many wonderful men who are single waiting to meet a woman like you. Opening up to men and admiring what htey have to offer is an important step when it comes to finding love again.
3. Learn What Works for Dating after 40
No one will argue that an education makes all the difference in he world when it comes to career. But the truth is, you also need to be knowledgeable about how dating works in midlife. Learning what to expect, what is reasonable, what to say and do and what to avoid – all of these things will help you find love faster.
As a dating coach for women, I work with you to clear up confusion and set you straight regarding the best approach for finding love. Why spin your wheels or rely on dating advice from family and friend who are well-meaning but uninformed. Working with me, you get the most up-to-date dating strategies and insights that minimize heart-breaking mistakes.
4. Discover Where to Meet Quality Men
When you hire a dating coach, one of the most empowering steps will be to create your dating action plan. What will you do to meet men and how often will you do it? Finding love alike any goal requires establishing objectives and creating a plan to achieve them. Singles rarely do this on their own.
What about you? Do you have a plan? If you want to wait to see what happens I can guarantee you more of the same as you have going on right now – probably not too much in the love department. Dating after 40 and finding love will not just magically happen. You need a plan to meet men.
With my clients, I share everything I know about finding quality men. My clients often have an awakening to suddenly start noticing the single men all around them. Without this kind of help, you might continue to believe there are no decent single men or at least not in your town. But this is absolutely not true.
5. Get Help with Understanding Men
When I was dating to find love, the hardest part was understanding men. Why did they say one thing and do another? Why didn’t they call or ask me out again? Why did they seem interested, yet not follow through? The whole process was so infuriating! I needed help with understanding men.
To be honest, I was shocked at how few women actually knew anything about men. I got a ton of very bad advice from well-meaning girlfriends that caused all kinds of grief. Then I got smart. I figured out which of my girlfriends actually had any understanding about men and I only sought out their advice. This changed everything for me.
This is another service I offer my clients. As a dating coach since 2002, I’ve gathered a lot of knowledge about single midlife men. And I can help you with understanding men – the things they do and say and why they don’t keep their promises. You’ll know when to believe a man and when to turn and run. You’ll be able to get into their heads so you can move on faster and stop wasting time on the wrong guys. This alone is worth the fee and will save you countless hours and sometimes months of worry and frustration.
So there you have it – the five top reasons to hire me as your dating coach. why not pick up the phone and give me a call right now 203-877-3777. We’ll schedule a 15-minute Get Acquainted call to discover how I might help you find love faster.