Ready to Find Love Faster?
Dating in mid life is not an easy thing to do. You might be recently divorced or widowed and out of practice for years. You might have gone through a break up and aren’t sure how to get back out there. You might be dating but not meeting the right men. Whatever the case, I understand that its not easy and also know this is true from my own personal journey to find love.
There is one thing you can do that is truly a game changer. If you want to find love faster, this one tip will fling the doors wide open for meeting more men. And when you are single and looking, that is exactly what you want.
Here’s the #1 Tip
Talk to and flirt with the men you cross paths with throughout your day.
Now, I realize you might be saying, “Come on Ronnie, I never meet any men!” That’s my point exactly. It’s time to step up your ability to meet men. And while you may feel like there aren’t any good men in your area, its actually not true. Here’s a big secret that most single women just don’t get that will help you find love faster…
Men are everywhere! Yes, even single men!
When I work with my dating coaching clients, they often tell me there are no single men where they live. In their daily lives, they simply don’t notice the men around them. That doesn’t mean they don’t exist. This blindness to men happens for many reasons. Maybe you are…
- Focused on the task in front of them
- Thinking about their to-do list
- Not paying attention
- Ruminating over problems
- Blinded by past negative experiences
- Lost in your own little world
- And there are many others
5 Steps to Become Aware of Men Around You
- Put up your man-alerting antennae
This means you need to open your eyes and look up to see who is around you. Put your phone down or look up when picking peppers in the grocery store and notice who is around you. Men are literally every where you are. However, you’ve got to start noticing them before you can interact with them.
- Make yourself smile
That might sound ridiculous, but its time to start smiling at people again. Smiling offers many benefits including exercising your facial muscles and creating happiness. The more you smile, the happier you will feel. This has been proven in social research. You could just smile about happy thoughts, but what works better is smiling at MEN. Men would love to see you smile and that gives you a way to share your happy energy.
- Start a conversation
I used to teach classes on conversation and in my research, I discovered that most people feel nervous about being the first to speak. What that means is for many people, they are happy when you break the ice for them! This is also true for me and will help you find love faster.
- Say anything
The whole idea is just to say anything to get the ball rolling. On the other hand, don’t go on and on. Say something and then, smile before moving on. You want to get good at striking up conversations and exiting them with grace and ease. These are not only good flirting skills, but will serve you in many areas of life, business included.
- Hold no agenda
This amazingly powerful tip will open you to a world of men. But there is one big caveat – you can’t have an one particular guy in mind. If you think you are going to flirt with just one special man, that’s probably not work. The point of this exercise is to open your mind, eyes and heart to the men around you to finally notice them and interact with them. This is about improving your friendly, flirty skills, not with one guy you’ve got your sights on. Let go of your agenda and wanting to see results beyond cranking up your male interactions.
The benefits of talking to the men you cross paths with are bountiful!
- You’ll get comfortable starting and ending conversations
- You’ll improve your social skills
- You’ll learn how to flirt and rely on your feminine charm
- You’ll realize how many single men are out there
- You’ll enrich your life as you meet lots of new people
- You’ll have more fun every day
And the #1 benefit of this amazing tip – Your confidence will sky-rocket! Did you know that men consider your confidence to be very s.ex.y? Yes they do!
Take on this challenge. Start noticing men, smiling at them and talking to them on a daily basis. Set a weekly quota for yourself of how many men you want to speak to. It’s not about how long your conversations are. What’s more important is how many men you smile at and speak to. At the very least, start with a goal of one man per day.
My hope for you is that you start today. Start right now! Don’t wait another moment to gain the confidence, skill and alluring power that comes from doing this exercise with no agenda. It worked for me. It’s worked for so many of my clietns. It never fails to help you find love faster.