How to Survive Single on Valentine’s Day?
So you’re single on Valentine’s Day? You certainly aren’t alone. To help you get through it, I have an amazing interview for you with Venus, the Roman Goddess of Love. She is the ancient archetype for feminine beauty and romantic love.
As a dating coach for women, I managed to interview Venus (granted, through a variety of wildly unusual circumstances) to get her advice for the single women I know connect with her energy and your own divine allure.
Here’s what Venus shared with me…
Dating Coach Ronnie: Venus, thank you so much for taking this interview. I’m sure you have so many things to look after being a Goddess and all.
Venus: Ronnie, no problem, it’s really my pleasure. As the Goddess of Love, it’s part of my duties to help every woman with her romantic life and sex appeal. Since I’ve been the inspiration for artists over thousands of years, I certainly have a lot of experience with this topic. (A giggle and a smile)
Tap into Your Divine Beauty
Dating Coach Ronnie: That’s wonderful Venus. So tell us, what is the best way for a woman to tap into her own divine beauty?
Venus: First and foremost, take time for yourself. Many women are well-versed in the mothering archetype, but tend to overlook or forget their own needs. Caring for yourself is a real method of honoring yourself – and that is fundamental to connecting with your inner Goddess. Self care and nurturing your spirit are forms of self love and as the Goddess of Love, I guarantee all love starts with self love.
Pamper your body with good skin care, a great hair cut and color if desired, and the right make up for you. Please drink plenty of water and get the rest you need (beauty sleep). It certainly helps to eat right – lots of vegetables and fruit.
Heighten Your Sensuality
Next, let’s talk about heightening your sensuality. One easy way is to get a massage! Nothing like a little non-threatening human touch to awaken your senses and desire for contact. Touch is one of the most neglected of human senses in the modern world today. Truth is, craving gentle touch is part of our human design. Other bodywork modalities will also work like Reiki, Polarity, Therapeutic Touch, and even aromatherapy, etc.
Dating Coach Ronnie: What a great point you make about missing touch. I was single for most of my adult life until 40 when I started my dating journey. I rarely got beyond a hand shake or occasional hug from a girlfriend. Hugging my friends wasn’t natural for me then. I didn’t even realize how much I craved a man’s touch or basic affection. So, that really rings true for me.
Is there anything else to help single gals get back into their sensual nature and create desire to help them take action to find love?
Venus: Baths are great. Luxuriate in a scented bubble bath, open a bottle of champagne, play some great music and treat yourself royally. Women today really need to know they are worthy and wonderful. Treasure yourself so you know what it’s like to be treated well and spoiled.
Know You Are Desirable
Dating Coach Ronnie: Venus, since you are so classically beautiful, do you have any tips to share on how a woman can increase her allure and appeal while she’s out there looking for the right partner?
Venus: A woman’s beauty stems from how she feels about herself. Do you think you are attractive? Do you feel worthy of love? Believing these things about yourself is truly the key. Your mindset matters to appear as your most attractive self.
It also really helps for single women to believe that love is REAL and completely possible for each one of them. And I know that it is. Trust me, as the Goddess of Love, this is one thing I know for sure.
Know deep within your heart that you are worthy, attractive, and desirable. If you don’t feel connected to your own appeal, then do something about that! Buy new clothes that make you look fabulous. Get a makeover. Start an exercise program. Whatever will raise self-esteem and improve your self-image is completely appropriate. Don’t skimp on building your confidence.
Here’s a great exercise I share with women who seek me out for help with their love life. Actually visualize yourself as someone men notice. Imagine that you are sexy, catch a man’s eye and feel good about that whole experience.
When a man looks at you, he is admiring your beauty! Everything starts with his attraction to you. The more you practice this visualization and the accompanying good feelings, the more it will become your reality.
Single on Valentine’s Day and Thriving!
Dating Coach Ronnie: What can help my readers survive and thrive while being single this Valentine’s Day?
Venus: When you see others in love, leverage that energy for yourself. In other words, rather than feeling badly about them being n love but not you, see them as proof that love is alive and if they found love you can do it too! This “New Age” method of leveraging the vibes lifts your spirit and helps you attract the love you want.
So much of finding love is about your own love vibes. When you feel optimistic for your own romantic future, you are FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE and magnetic to bringing love into your life. That’s actually how the Law of Attraction works. When you feel loving and positive about love, you attract it!
Dating Coach Ronnie: Venus, I can’t thank you enough for your loving words of wisdom. I hope we can talk again sometime. And please do whatever you can to help all my readers find the love they want and deserve.
Venus: It’s been my pleasure to share and I will do all I can to facilitate love for your readers who are single on Valentine’s Day. Cupid is my son you know, so I’m connected and I’ll put in a good word for every woman who reads this post to help her find the love she dreams of.