Tired of being single? If you’ve been solo for a while, you have likely spent many nights alone. That’s the “Silent Night” I’m talking about, a take off on the age-old, classic Christmas song.
Being single is certainly not all bad! No struggling with the covers. No snoring. At least not by anyone but you. Going to sleep any time you want. Watching TV till the wee hours if you feel like it. There are benefits of sleeping alone for sure.
But sometimes, it might be nice to snuggle up to a man. Cuddle next to him for warmth and affection. Breath in his scent and feel the stubble on his chin. And maybe something more.
Being single, this is what my dating coaching clients tell me they miss the most. The closeness, affection, kisses and having someone to share every day life with.
Tired of Being Single? Here’s What You Can Do
So, what are you going to do about it? Once the holiday busy-ness is over, will you make finding love a priority? Will you…
- Decide to finally try online dating or figure out how to make the most this resource?
- Try a speed dating event
- Attend a meetup.com single event?
- Ask friends or family if they know anyone to fix you up with
- Smile more, strike up conversations and notice the men around you
Good men are out there. But you have to be visible and willing to mingle to meet them.
As your dating coach, let me ask you – what will you do? Will you allow countless silent nights to fill your life? Have you had enough and feel done with being single? Or will you make an effort in 2017 to change your dating mindset and make a greater effort to find the love you want?
- Will you shift into action and take steps to meet men?
- Will you open your heart and mind to men and give them a chance?
- Will you work on self-esteem to appear confident and handle rejection better?
- Will you learn what works with dating today?
- Will you find out how to understand men and the difference between what they say and do?
Finding Love in Midlife Is Anything But Obvious
The point of dating coaching is to work with an expert in midlife dating. Someone who knows what works best for the vast majority of single women. A dating coach like me will inspire you to become active, make sure your heart is open and help you heal the past, and understand what men and saying and doing to eliminate so much of the frustration you would normally encounter.
Why struggle on your own? When you continue to do the same things you have been doing, but expect a different result, that’s when disappointment is sure to visit. Instead, take the most empowering step possible and ask for help from a professional.
Dating Help that Makes a Difference
Working with me is not like asking your girlfriends what they think. They will have opinions and the best of intentions, but that doesn’t mean they actually understand what is happening from a place of objectivity. When I was dating I was shocked at the advice I got from girlfriends and I quickly learned the hard way they knew practically nothing about men and dating.
But imagine if you could turn to someone who could answer your questions about men who really knew what was going on? Wouldn’t that be incredibly helpful to really KNOW? To have a resource who could share new ideas, explain situations and keep you active and motivated? Someone who could help you make the most of your time and could prevent you from wasting precious time on the wrong man.
Ready to jump in and find love? My newest program My Time for Love is starting Monday, January 16th. I’ll post all the details soon! Decide, right now that 2017 is your year for love! Then, let me help you so your dreams of love will come true.
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