Finding Love – How to Shake Things Up!
Has your love life come to a stand still? Maybe its slowed down to the speed of molasses in winter. When you are dating over 40 or dating after divorce, it happens. Good news is – there is a cure!
Yesterday, the east coast rocked as we experienced an earthquake rated 5.8 on the scale. I didn’t notice it. But it did make me think, “What can I do to shake things up?” As your dating coach, that’s the question I pose to you.
“How can you shake things up to find love?”
It’s time to shake up your routines, habits and even favorite places if you want to meet more men than your present methods deliver. I have several suggestions to get you started.
- Take a different route to work
- Stop at a new coffee shop in the morning
- Try a different branch of your bank
- Take your friends to a new hangout/bar
- Try a new singles dance
- Go grocery shopping at a different time of day
- Buy gas some place new
- Join a new Meetup group
- Go to the gym at night instead of the morning
- Walk your dog in a new park or route
And when you are making an effort to see new places and start new habits, set an intention so you are doing these things with a higher level of consciousness. Your intention could be to:
- Smile at 10 people daily
- Say hello to 10 strangers every day
- Have a conversation with one new person a day
- Give three people a compliment
- Make eye contact with 5 men weekly
If you take on any of these intentions, think of how many more men you’ll be interacting with. Think about how many more people you can meet? Think about how much easier talking with strangers will get?
All of this adds up to a lot more confidence as well. And, when you smile more, you’ll naturally be happier! Seriously, is there a downside here? Not that I can see!
Still Wondering How to Find Love?
Sometimes people find each other at a dance or are fixed up on a blind date. But often, its serendipity. A simple meeting when you are not expecting to connect, yet you do!
Coming up in September I have a program call “How to Become Irresistible and Meet 50 men in 90 days. It’s a serious love life breakthrough. Participants gain confidence, meet lots of new men, get comfortable, and most importantly, have a whole lot of fun! Check it out and do what you can to shake things up!
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