There are countless reasons why a younger man might date an older woman, but this week, I’ll give you a list of seven reasons that are the most probable from this dating coach’s perspective. Today, you’ll find three below. More will follow later this week so check back!
1) For Lust
Maybe you’re just hot and he wants you. Not such a bad thing when you think about it. After all, nature has played a mean trick on humans with women reaching their sexual peak later in life and men reaching it earlier. So this is a way to balance things out! Not only that, but if a younger man finds you attractive, whether or not you go for it, his attention is flattering. Allow yourself to pump up your ego and feel like the attractive, alluring woman that you really are. Enjoy it!
2) For Fun
Cyndi Lauper says "Girls just want to have fun." so go ahead and have some fun with that younger man who could be looking for the very same thing. Sometimes life brings you a opportunity just for the sake of a good time. Nothing wrong with that. The movie "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" was all about that romantic situation. A fling with a young man brought Stella back to the joys of life.
3) For Escaping the Ticking Bio Clock
Younger women in their 30’s are often worried about their biological clocks ticking away and with good reason. If you want to have children, time does run out at some point. But with an older woman, she is past thinking "family" or already has her family and so the pressure on that young man is off. With an older woman, he can actually skirt the whole family thing and just enjoy. And so can you.
Stop by again later this week to discover four more darn good reasons why young men fall for older women.
Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony, MSN.com, MORE.com, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.