I could really use some advice. I’ve been seeing this very attractive younger guy for 3 months now. It’s pretty steamy. We meet once a week and have fantastic sex in a hotel. Tim tells me he doesn’t want a relationship. (And through mutual friends I discovered he thinks I’m too old for him.) Even though this has been really fun, I get the feeling it’s not going any where and I should end it. Tim is 32 and I’m 45. What do you think?
Hoping for More
One thing you left out of the story is your own dating agenda. If you are OK with having fun commitment-free sex, then what the heck? But, if you are looking for a long-term, loving relationship, Tim is NOT your man. He’s even told you so AND you’ve heard it from a friend. Trust your instincts and move on.
I think this is why there are so many 30 something men dating older women. Just an opinion I know and definitely not always true. But some guys may figure the baby bio-clock has stopped ticking, so no pressure or commitment will be required or requested.
You deserve more than sex in a relationship and you CAN FIND IT! Walk away from Tim, make yourself available again and raise your standards! There are good men out there who will light your fire and love you too. Why settle for half of your desire? Go for what you want and stop settling for hotel sex.
Wishing you love,