Dating Over 40: 19 Ways to Get More Men to Ask You to Dance!

I just read this great article about how to get more men to ask you to dance. Not just one or two ideas but 19! That’s a lot of tips on how to make the most of a singles dance or a ballroom or salsa group event.


Here are just a few to give ou afeeling about how smart the author is:

#2 Avoid bare shoulders or back. Why? Because directly touching your skin might seem like too much contact or intimacy for a man who doesn’t know you. Bare skin is fun for when you have a steady partner, but for meeting new men, covered shoulders are better.

#5 Say hi to lots of men, even starting in the parking lot. You don’t need to make more conversation than that or stick around to see if the men will start a conversation. All you are doing is being friendly and letting the men know you are approachable. Men don’t like to be rejected and some women are down right mean. Demonstrate your approachability and openess with a brief smile and a simple hello to find yourself with more dance partners.

These tips sound like I authored them, but I just paraphrased for you. And these ideas fit right in with my current theme of meeting lots of new men. With nineteen tips in all, you should be able to figure out how to dance the night away. Wouldn’t that be fun!

This is a keeper – I’d print it out so you can remind yourself before going to a dance event. Nothng like a refresher to set your intention for a fun-filled evening. Enjoy!

Single for too long, Ronnie wanted to find love. So, she made a few tweaks and then dated 30 men in 15 months to meet her adorable husband Paul. Discovering the keys to midlife dating, she founded It’s Never Too Late for Love to help other smart, successful women find love too! Her mission is to share her proven dating advice  and keen insights about men with women everywhere who are serious about finding love with the right man. Ronnie Ann Ryan, MBA, CCC is a Certified Coach who has helped 1,000’s of midlife women with her Love & Dating Coach services. She’s been featured on BBC’s 5 Live Radio, NBC, ABC, and Fox News, NPR, eHarmony,,, Connecticut Magazine among others around the world. An established author, you can find her 6 books on Amazon.

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